The Law of Attraction: CONTROL VS CREATING Which Do You Do?

An interesting topic if ever we did hear one.  Let us first acknowledge that we are all creator being, whether or not we realize, accept or believe this we are just that.  We create all that we experience in our physical experience each and every second we are alive on this earth. 
You don’t have to believe it, you don’t have to understand it, you don’t even have to be aware of it in any form.  Being in the latter part of that thought puts you square in the center of where you really do not want to be, but we will get to that.

You see, when you have an understanding that we are a creator being, that we do create all that we experience within this life, we are square in the center of where you exactly want to be within this life.  But this too we will get too.  We just want you to begin to see first of all that there is a difference between believing that we are creator beings and that being a being where life just “happens to us”, where we have no creative power but rather are here living what is dealt to us.  Begin to “feel” the difference between the two statements, really, say them each within your mind’s eye: “I AM A CREATOR BEING” and “I LIVE THE LIFE I AM DEALT”.  Which “FEELS” better to you?  Secondly we want you to begin to understand that while there are different feels to the last stated statements, in order to truly and appropriately “FEEL” either of them you must first take the time to get to know, understand and have a belief in who you truly are as in individual being within this physical plane we all share.  You need to become “United In Acceptance” with who you “REALLY ARE” as that being.  By that we mean you need to fully understand that you are one part physical – that which you see in the mirror and you are  one part non-physical – that which you feel when you close your eyes and experience yourself without benefit of your sight.  Once you have an understanding that we have two parts your next step is to “feel each part as the two aspects that make up the whole you”.  Once you have done this and you see no separation but rather experience the whole and complete you and really feel it, you are now what we call “United In Acceptance”.  You are at this stage, well on your way to not just knowing who you truly are as a being but feeling the true you and living life from that stance.  You can say that you are “feeling” your way through life rather than “thinking” your way through life and yes there is a difference.  This is where we can now begin our full discussion of our topic – CONTROL VS CREATING.  You may want to go back and reread the beginning of this discussion to get a better and full understanding of what we are speaking about, as the clearer your thought is on this topic the better you will understand what we are saying with regards to this topic.

Let us go back to the beginning now.  Control VS Create.  When you have the above stated understating of self you can really begin to understand the difference between control and create.  You begin to not only see but feel that when you control you experience struggle, turmoil and find yourself well within contrast almost each step of the way.  While the opposite is true for creating.  You now begin to feel an effortlessness when you think about your life and your life’s experiences.  You begin to feel that all your dreams and desires are within your reach, no matter how far away they may actually be, you have a knowing that you will experience each of them, there is a belief there that they will all come to you.  This is due to the fact that you are fully in touch with who you are as a whole and complete being and you fully have the awareness of your true heartfelt desires, your dreams and your aspirations.  You know you will experience them and that is just the way it is!  We are certain the you are really beginning to see and understand the difference between control and create.  We are certain that you are feeling the difference between these two aspects of our daily life. 

So we now beg the question, which do you feel is the real you doing at your present moment within your life?  Which feels more real to you?  Which seems to be ringing more true to you?  Are you controlling life or are you creating life?  Give it some serious and deep thought as this is the only way you are going to be able to get centered on your path of life. 

We will go further into breaking each one down for you to assist you with a fuller more richer understanding of each, helping you bring forth the real you so you too can live your life full of desires rather than thru contrast to get you to feel desire.

When you are controlling life, you have an over whelming feeling that life is just not fair.  That you have been dealt a bad hand and just have to deal with you.  You pretty much walk through life with a chip on your shoulder and can be heard mumbling things like, life isn’t fair…..I can’t catch a break to save my own life…….why wish for something, it will never happen for me…….my life sucks…….good things only happen to others, not me…….I have no luck at all.  We could go on forever with such statements.  Each time you find yourself saying something like those statements, you are actually sending yourself a message, but are just not hearing it.  You are telling yourself to stop trying to control life, stop trying to micro manage life.  Let go of your controlling ways.  Take a quick minute to figure out why you are feeling so miserable.  You are experiencing the “Language of Self”.  Yes, you are talking to yourself!  Your higher self (the non physical aspect of self) is sending you messages, trying to get you to hear them so you can begin to live life from a new perspective, live life as it was meant to be lived.  Each time you try and “CONTROL” your life, you are in essence giving up control.  Each time you try and “CONTROL” your life you are stifling your own true self, you are shutting down the real you.  Why you ask?  There are many reasons…..fear, guilt, worry, no belief in oneself…..this list could go on and on.  It really boils down to not knowing who you are as we discussed earlier in this discussion.  We control when we have a lack of faith in who we are as beings, when we have little to no understanding or belief that we truly do have the ability to create that which we want to experience.  And sometimes, we do get to experience it, but because we have controlled every aspect of that which we want to experience, we did not see it as we saw it in our minds eye and were so separated from who we truly are that the feeling of the experience was completely lost and could never have been felt, therefore we feel that life once again has let us down!  We are certain that you are now beginning to bask in the full understanding of “CONTROLING LIFE” and really are beginning to feel yourself with a renewed perspective at this point!  Thing about this aspect of life, this aspect of your life before you read any further.  Feel yourself and where you are with relation to trying to control your life!

Now let’s examine the creating aspect life.  We are creator beings.  Once you have a basic understanding of that aspect of life, you have a basic understanding of how to live your life.  From the standpoint of the real you!  Bring forth the real you into this physical reality with a strong deliberate determination and you will have the ability to feel your way through life bringing into your level of experience all that you desire to experience.  You have the understanding that you do not need to control anything as you have a level of knowing belief that you will experience that which you desire as all you have to do is create it.  You begin this process by fully knowing and understanding that which your desires are that you want to experience, that you want to feel!  And feel is appropriate as that is what we are all after regardless of what it is we are trying to manifest……car, house, relationship, wealth…….makes no difference as we are all trying to achieve the same thing, a feeling that is associated with any desire you have, makes no difference what the desire is.  When you fully understand the creating process, you have an awareness of just that, you are going after the feeling not the “thing”.  When you understand that, you don’t need to get lost in trying to control the manifesting aspect as you already have that underlying feeling that it will come to pass, you will achieve that feeling from the manifestation.  You see, when you give up control you actually get more control over what really matters in life, the real you!  When you create, you visualize that which you desire and want to manifest.  You identify the “feeling” aspect of your desire, your future manifestation and that is what you focus on throughout the entire process, the feeling of that desire.  In doing so, you have just allowed yourself to align yourself with the Law of Attraction, you have just set yourself up to allow each and every step needed for you to take to become well within your awareness, therefore fully seeing and feeling each step and taking them without reservation and coming one step closer (and feeling it with certainty) to bringing into your physical reality that which you want to experience.  Further your level of contrast will be slight, on a level of preference, much easier to deal with than full blown contrast.  You don’t require the full blown contrast (contrast being a desire indicator) as you are fully in touch with that which you desire!  Amazing how the process works now isn’t it, when you have a full understanding of the process and begin to feel your way through it!  We are certain you have an awareness unlike ever before!

To learn more, be sure and join Mary Anne Cipressy and David Trippany this Friday on Blog Talk Radio as they dialog on this topic.  Join them at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC at 1PM eastern time.  Sit back and enjoy the dialog or feel free to join in either in the chat room or by phoning into the show!  You can also learn more by visiting the ITSC web site by going to: www.ITSCcoaching.com  While there, be sure and click on the “Resources Tab” to get your free tools today to help you better create your tomorrow.  If you have questions, comments or ever a show idea, please feel free to email us at: ITSC2008@aol.com  We look forward to all your emails, and have enjoyed all that we have received to date!  Keep them coming as we love hearing from all of you!!!

This is the start of a new series for us with regards to the Law of Attraction – “The Law of Attraction - Control VS Create”.   Each week we will dialog deeper into this topic helping everyone understand the entire process, therefore better assisting them with creating that which they desire! 

Until next time, may you all continue to experience all that you desire!

Creating Anew

Sometimes we focus so much on what we are manifesting that we forget that everything is created energetically long before it ever manifests. Something then manifests and we look at it and then say…”but this is not what I want” and wonder what we did to manifest such a thing. We look at why it manifested, try to find that 1 thought or belief that manifested this thing we say we did not want. We try to erase it, undo it, reverse it and overall resist that it manifested. Well that is all wasted energy because once something manifests it is now part of you past. It has happened, it has already occurred and the only choice you now have is what you are going to do with it.  

Think about those times when something manifested that you say you did not want and look at how you handle that. What questions are you asking yourself? What rationalizations are you using?  The biggest part of this whole process is thinking that what manifested in the first place is something that you did not want. Oh sure you may not think it is what you wanted but it is. The problem is in the perspective that this experience is a negative one. It may feel negative because the energy used to create it was of a lower vibration but that it is your judgment of the experience that makes it a negative not the experience itself. 

We fail to ask the most important question…”What is this experience telling me?” “What did I create this experience for?” We would rather look backward to try to figure out why this thing manifested as opposed to looking forward. When you look forward we begin to understand who we really are and what wonderful and master creators we are. The manifesting part takes care of itself when we realize we are creators not manifesters.    We focus so much on manifesting what we want and manifesting faster that we lose sight of the fact that we are creators. Change what you are creating and you will change what is manifesting. 

You can begin to create something new right here in this very moment without ever having to look backwards. You need to keep your focus present centered. Empower yourself as the creator you are. What has already manifested only tells you what you created in the past and has no bearing on what you can create when moving forward. What you are creating today are your manifestations of the tomorrows to come.  The past is the past and the future is yours to create.

CREATING MY REALITY

"First comes thought; then organization of that thought, into ideas and plans; then transformation of those plans into reality. The beginning, as you will observe, is in your imagination." Napoleon Hill

 

That is a very interesting process to say the least!  Have you ever thought about what your reality is?  Have you ever taken the time to realize that you do create your own reality?  Have you even considered that you are a magnificent creator?  We can go on and on with the “have you” observations, but we really need to concentrate on one simple fact for a moment, that we truly are the creators of our own reality.

Stop and think for one moment that through your thought process and belief system, you are actually creating on a daily basis the reality that you are experiencing.  Especially so, if you are experiencing that which you really are not wanting to experience.  We call that type of experience “contrast”.  We have come to know “contrast as merely a desire indicator”.  In other words, when you experience that which you do not like, the Law of Attraction is merely bringing into your reality the opportunity for you to refocus on that which you truly do desire.  This is why we say that there really is no negative experiences to be experienced, as the negative situations are merely helping you refocus and determine what it is you do desire, what desire you are trying to create but for whatever reason lost your focus.  We seem to have come to a creative process where we have mastered creating situations that are full of contrast and don really care to be experiencing.  So if we have come to master that aspect of creating and filling our reality with that which we really don’t care to experience, then just how come we have not mastered creating our true heartfelt desires?  That is a great question!  There are a multitude of answers.  However, the one we like the most as it resonates the best with us is because we have been conditioned to create this way!  We have been taught to create this way!  As told in “The Secret”, as individuals came to understand The Law Of Attraction, the wanted to keep it to themselves, a small group with misguided thoughts and motives.  They did not want to share this great gift that is there for all to not only enjoy but live their life by each and every day they are within the wonderful physical plane.  Why you ask?  That answer is quite simple, “FEAR”.  Fear is a powerful motivator of mankind.  Look around you each day and see how many times you are bombarded with some fear based thought to get you to think, respond and live your life a certain way.  It is all around us, listen to the news, read the newspaper or simply turn on your TV and you will see that fear is thrown in our face hour by hour!  Basically, those that knew of this powerful Law of Attraction wanted o keep and hold it for themselves, because if everyone knew of this magnificent power, then perhaps there will not be enough to go around or perhaps the power itself would not be so great!  Remember, information itself is held as a great power source within our society!  That is evidenced each and every day, just look around and listen!  Now that we realize that fear plays a large role in our ability to be “Contrast Creators”, perhaps we can see fear for what it really is: False Evidence Appearing Real, and take the steps to become deliberate creators and create our desires to experience, manifest our desires to experience, live our life the way we intended to live it!

Sounds easy because it is easy!  Remember you are a creator being.  Every religion, every dogma, every spiritual based thought process tells us that we are creator beings.  Knowing that knowledge should lend you a hand in becoming the magnificent creator you are within this physical plane!  Begin to feel your own self power and as you do you will feel it empower you making you realize that you are a self empowered creator, one that can and will create the reality that you not only desire but yes deserve!  That is huge!  We do deserve to experience that which we desire.  Every being walking on this planet deserves to experience their heartfelt desire and we all need to develop that perspective!  Once we do this, we can then begin to develop a true and loving relationship with ourselves and then and only then can we begin to dive into our pool of desires and not just know the vastness of that pool but can now begin to feel that pool and understand through feeling that which we want to create, manifest and experience!  We each have wonderful desire pools and each of us deserve to create from that pool rather then  create the contrast to help us only to realize that we need to focus on that pool!  Become a self empowered individual and you too will become a self empowered creator that can and will become a true creator of your true reality, a reality that reflects who you truly are as an individual within this physical plane!

Begin to feel your own empowerment and you too will begin to feel yourself create the reality you both desire and deserve!  You’ve mastered creating contrast, now give creating desire a try, you will be so glad you did!

To learn more about creating your reality, be sure to tune into ITSC’s show on Blog Talk Radio by visiting www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC.  Mary Anne and Dave will be dialoging on this topic and invite you to listen and join in the dialog!  4pm eastern each Friday!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until then, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

 

Creating With Intent

 There is a common misunderstanding as to what Creating with Intent really means. Creating with intent is not the same as creating an intention to be/do/have something. When you use an intention statement, in the form of a positive affirmation, to create an intention you will often see it formed like this.... "I intend to experience prosperity and abundance in my life" or you might see "I intend that my business is flourishing and income is flowing freely". Another way it is common to use these statements is to say...."It is my intention to let go of fear with ease and grace". When you use these types of statements you are creating an intention. This puts what it is you desire to manifest into the future. Energetically, it puts your manifestation into some future point of time. These types of statements are not definitive statements. Why would you intend to manifest something? Why not just manifest it?

Creating with intent however is creating with focus, attention as in the word intensity. It is creating with intensity, the intensity of your focus, attention....your energy.  This brings your energy into the present moment. The Law of Attraction responds to your energy, what you are feeling. The stronger the intensity of your desire, the larger the manifestation of that desire.

When you create with intent, you have a vision, you can feel that vision. You focus your energy, your thoughts on how that vision feels. When you hold onto this you can actually feel the energy grow and expand.

All things are created energetically long before they ever manifest.If you want to manifest something do not intend to do so but do so with intent, with the intensity of your energy and let that energy grow and expand.