The Law of Attraction: CONTROL VS CREATING Which Do You Do?

An interesting topic if ever we did hear one.  Let us first acknowledge that we are all creator being, whether or not we realize, accept or believe this we are just that.  We create all that we experience in our physical experience each and every second we are alive on this earth. 
You don’t have to believe it, you don’t have to understand it, you don’t even have to be aware of it in any form.  Being in the latter part of that thought puts you square in the center of where you really do not want to be, but we will get to that.

You see, when you have an understanding that we are a creator being, that we do create all that we experience within this life, we are square in the center of where you exactly want to be within this life.  But this too we will get too.  We just want you to begin to see first of all that there is a difference between believing that we are creator beings and that being a being where life just “happens to us”, where we have no creative power but rather are here living what is dealt to us.  Begin to “feel” the difference between the two statements, really, say them each within your mind’s eye: “I AM A CREATOR BEING” and “I LIVE THE LIFE I AM DEALT”.  Which “FEELS” better to you?  Secondly we want you to begin to understand that while there are different feels to the last stated statements, in order to truly and appropriately “FEEL” either of them you must first take the time to get to know, understand and have a belief in who you truly are as in individual being within this physical plane we all share.  You need to become “United In Acceptance” with who you “REALLY ARE” as that being.  By that we mean you need to fully understand that you are one part physical – that which you see in the mirror and you are  one part non-physical – that which you feel when you close your eyes and experience yourself without benefit of your sight.  Once you have an understanding that we have two parts your next step is to “feel each part as the two aspects that make up the whole you”.  Once you have done this and you see no separation but rather experience the whole and complete you and really feel it, you are now what we call “United In Acceptance”.  You are at this stage, well on your way to not just knowing who you truly are as a being but feeling the true you and living life from that stance.  You can say that you are “feeling” your way through life rather than “thinking” your way through life and yes there is a difference.  This is where we can now begin our full discussion of our topic – CONTROL VS CREATING.  You may want to go back and reread the beginning of this discussion to get a better and full understanding of what we are speaking about, as the clearer your thought is on this topic the better you will understand what we are saying with regards to this topic.

Let us go back to the beginning now.  Control VS Create.  When you have the above stated understating of self you can really begin to understand the difference between control and create.  You begin to not only see but feel that when you control you experience struggle, turmoil and find yourself well within contrast almost each step of the way.  While the opposite is true for creating.  You now begin to feel an effortlessness when you think about your life and your life’s experiences.  You begin to feel that all your dreams and desires are within your reach, no matter how far away they may actually be, you have a knowing that you will experience each of them, there is a belief there that they will all come to you.  This is due to the fact that you are fully in touch with who you are as a whole and complete being and you fully have the awareness of your true heartfelt desires, your dreams and your aspirations.  You know you will experience them and that is just the way it is!  We are certain the you are really beginning to see and understand the difference between control and create.  We are certain that you are feeling the difference between these two aspects of our daily life. 

So we now beg the question, which do you feel is the real you doing at your present moment within your life?  Which feels more real to you?  Which seems to be ringing more true to you?  Are you controlling life or are you creating life?  Give it some serious and deep thought as this is the only way you are going to be able to get centered on your path of life. 

We will go further into breaking each one down for you to assist you with a fuller more richer understanding of each, helping you bring forth the real you so you too can live your life full of desires rather than thru contrast to get you to feel desire.

When you are controlling life, you have an over whelming feeling that life is just not fair.  That you have been dealt a bad hand and just have to deal with you.  You pretty much walk through life with a chip on your shoulder and can be heard mumbling things like, life isn’t fair…..I can’t catch a break to save my own life…….why wish for something, it will never happen for me…….my life sucks…….good things only happen to others, not me…….I have no luck at all.  We could go on forever with such statements.  Each time you find yourself saying something like those statements, you are actually sending yourself a message, but are just not hearing it.  You are telling yourself to stop trying to control life, stop trying to micro manage life.  Let go of your controlling ways.  Take a quick minute to figure out why you are feeling so miserable.  You are experiencing the “Language of Self”.  Yes, you are talking to yourself!  Your higher self (the non physical aspect of self) is sending you messages, trying to get you to hear them so you can begin to live life from a new perspective, live life as it was meant to be lived.  Each time you try and “CONTROL” your life, you are in essence giving up control.  Each time you try and “CONTROL” your life you are stifling your own true self, you are shutting down the real you.  Why you ask?  There are many reasons…..fear, guilt, worry, no belief in oneself…..this list could go on and on.  It really boils down to not knowing who you are as we discussed earlier in this discussion.  We control when we have a lack of faith in who we are as beings, when we have little to no understanding or belief that we truly do have the ability to create that which we want to experience.  And sometimes, we do get to experience it, but because we have controlled every aspect of that which we want to experience, we did not see it as we saw it in our minds eye and were so separated from who we truly are that the feeling of the experience was completely lost and could never have been felt, therefore we feel that life once again has let us down!  We are certain that you are now beginning to bask in the full understanding of “CONTROLING LIFE” and really are beginning to feel yourself with a renewed perspective at this point!  Thing about this aspect of life, this aspect of your life before you read any further.  Feel yourself and where you are with relation to trying to control your life!

Now let’s examine the creating aspect life.  We are creator beings.  Once you have a basic understanding of that aspect of life, you have a basic understanding of how to live your life.  From the standpoint of the real you!  Bring forth the real you into this physical reality with a strong deliberate determination and you will have the ability to feel your way through life bringing into your level of experience all that you desire to experience.  You have the understanding that you do not need to control anything as you have a level of knowing belief that you will experience that which you desire as all you have to do is create it.  You begin this process by fully knowing and understanding that which your desires are that you want to experience, that you want to feel!  And feel is appropriate as that is what we are all after regardless of what it is we are trying to manifest……car, house, relationship, wealth…….makes no difference as we are all trying to achieve the same thing, a feeling that is associated with any desire you have, makes no difference what the desire is.  When you fully understand the creating process, you have an awareness of just that, you are going after the feeling not the “thing”.  When you understand that, you don’t need to get lost in trying to control the manifesting aspect as you already have that underlying feeling that it will come to pass, you will achieve that feeling from the manifestation.  You see, when you give up control you actually get more control over what really matters in life, the real you!  When you create, you visualize that which you desire and want to manifest.  You identify the “feeling” aspect of your desire, your future manifestation and that is what you focus on throughout the entire process, the feeling of that desire.  In doing so, you have just allowed yourself to align yourself with the Law of Attraction, you have just set yourself up to allow each and every step needed for you to take to become well within your awareness, therefore fully seeing and feeling each step and taking them without reservation and coming one step closer (and feeling it with certainty) to bringing into your physical reality that which you want to experience.  Further your level of contrast will be slight, on a level of preference, much easier to deal with than full blown contrast.  You don’t require the full blown contrast (contrast being a desire indicator) as you are fully in touch with that which you desire!  Amazing how the process works now isn’t it, when you have a full understanding of the process and begin to feel your way through it!  We are certain you have an awareness unlike ever before!

To learn more, be sure and join Mary Anne Cipressy and David Trippany this Friday on Blog Talk Radio as they dialog on this topic.  Join them at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC at 1PM eastern time.  Sit back and enjoy the dialog or feel free to join in either in the chat room or by phoning into the show!  You can also learn more by visiting the ITSC web site by going to: www.ITSCcoaching.com  While there, be sure and click on the “Resources Tab” to get your free tools today to help you better create your tomorrow.  If you have questions, comments or ever a show idea, please feel free to email us at: ITSC2008@aol.com  We look forward to all your emails, and have enjoyed all that we have received to date!  Keep them coming as we love hearing from all of you!!!

This is the start of a new series for us with regards to the Law of Attraction – “The Law of Attraction - Control VS Create”.   Each week we will dialog deeper into this topic helping everyone understand the entire process, therefore better assisting them with creating that which they desire! 

Until next time, may you all continue to experience all that you desire!

The Law of Attraction: HOW POWERFUL AM I?

How powerful do you feel?  That is the real question you need to be asking yourself to determine just how powerful you actually are within this physical plane.  Because whether you feel you are a powerful being or whether you are not a powerful being, either way you are absolutely right!  That is the most amazing aspect of this question.  The answer is totally up to you and how you feel about you at any given moment in time! 

Now when we speak about “how powerful you are”, we are absolutely referring to you being a creator being, a being with absolute creative powers to create the reality that you live within each moment of time you are on this earth.  That’s right, your reality is created by you, whether you want to believe that or not, it is all up to you.  Whether you understand the process or not, it is all about you!  You may be reading this saying to yourself, “I would never create this cruddy life I am living, I would create something much more grand”.  Well, understand it right here and now, you created exactly where you are at in life at this moment.  Only you, now one else.  You can blame whoever you like, but in the end, you created it!  And if you are thinking that very thought, take a quick minute to take stock of where your focus is and what you have been focusing on, and we are sure you will realize that you have been focused on more negative aspects rather than more positive aspects in your life.  You will begin to realize that your focus has been on exactly what you have been experiencing, exactly what your reality has been.  It may be a bitter pill to swallow realizing that you are responsible for your lot in life, but the sooner you accept responsibility for your lot in life, the sooner you can actually do something about changing that lot you are not very happy with at this point within your journey.  That is  the best part, you can tell yourself that you are an expert at creating that which you do not want, so why can you not turn that coin over and now begin to create that which you do want!  Interesting thought isn’t it!  We are betting you have reread that sentence a couple of times as it is a sentence that will actually begin to change your perspective about things, giving you a new creative perspective from which to create a new, create that which you do want to experience!

Now that we know and are beginning to realize that you are a powerful creator, and you are beginning to feel an understanding about it that you have not felt before, you can begin to be a “take charge creator”!  The first thing you need to do is understand that you have not made any mistakes, you have done nothing wrong!  You merely need to understand that everything you have experienced within your life, within your journey to this point has gotten you to this very point, this point where you now have a new understanding of the process and are willing to accept and take responsibility for your journey in a very deliberate manner!  What an awesome feeling is that to begin to bring into your awareness, your consciousness.  To take responsibility for your creative powers with a new and more powerful understanding.  You now have the where withal to bring forth a new focus, a new drive and determination to create that which you desire, truly heartfelt desire.  We need to remind you that the best way to achieve this is to take that quick minute to get to know the real you, get to a point of understanding the real you, as the more you do this, the more you truly know and feel your heartfelt desires and in doing so have given the Law of Attraction a new driven focus from which to assist you in creating that which you desire!  An amazing process when you begin to allow yourself to understand just how the process actually works.  It is quite easy, however with each passing minute we try to make it more difficult that it actually is as we have been habitually bombarded with thoughts like, “if it is worth having, it is worth working hard for”, “nothing comes easy in life” and our personal favorite “if it seems too easy, then it just isn’t real”!  Just understand the process and you will have developed a new perspective that will allow you to create desire rather than contrast!  How delightful is that process, how gratifying is that process, how self empowering is that process!!

So we ask you once again…….”How Powerful Are You?”  We are certain your answer is beginning to get in more of an aligned position with the real you than it was before you began to educate yourself on not just the process but on you as well.  After all, only you can create for you, no one else can, just you!  Begin to open your thoughts, begin to feel yourself within the thoughts you have, remember – it is not about what you think, but rather how you feel!  Get to know the real you, begin to understand the real you and the process will take on a whole new perspective.  The process will begin to reflect the real you.  Your life journey will begin to be filled with desire manifestations rather than contrast.  Try it, you will amaze yourself with your new found self empowerment!

To learn more, join Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany on Blog Talk Radio Friday at 4PM.  Log on at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC.  Sit back and enjoy the dialog or feel free to join the dialog either by phoning into the show are in the show’s chat room!

Visit their website at www.ITSCcoaching.com.  While there, click on the RESOURCES TAB to get your free tools today to create your better tomorrow.  Until next time, may you experience all that you desire!

Creating Anew

Sometimes we focus so much on what we are manifesting that we forget that everything is created energetically long before it ever manifests. Something then manifests and we look at it and then say…”but this is not what I want” and wonder what we did to manifest such a thing. We look at why it manifested, try to find that 1 thought or belief that manifested this thing we say we did not want. We try to erase it, undo it, reverse it and overall resist that it manifested. Well that is all wasted energy because once something manifests it is now part of you past. It has happened, it has already occurred and the only choice you now have is what you are going to do with it.  

Think about those times when something manifested that you say you did not want and look at how you handle that. What questions are you asking yourself? What rationalizations are you using?  The biggest part of this whole process is thinking that what manifested in the first place is something that you did not want. Oh sure you may not think it is what you wanted but it is. The problem is in the perspective that this experience is a negative one. It may feel negative because the energy used to create it was of a lower vibration but that it is your judgment of the experience that makes it a negative not the experience itself. 

We fail to ask the most important question…”What is this experience telling me?” “What did I create this experience for?” We would rather look backward to try to figure out why this thing manifested as opposed to looking forward. When you look forward we begin to understand who we really are and what wonderful and master creators we are. The manifesting part takes care of itself when we realize we are creators not manifesters.    We focus so much on manifesting what we want and manifesting faster that we lose sight of the fact that we are creators. Change what you are creating and you will change what is manifesting. 

You can begin to create something new right here in this very moment without ever having to look backwards. You need to keep your focus present centered. Empower yourself as the creator you are. What has already manifested only tells you what you created in the past and has no bearing on what you can create when moving forward. What you are creating today are your manifestations of the tomorrows to come.  The past is the past and the future is yours to create.

RATIONAL THOUGHTS AND EXCUSES

Spend some time pondering that title and you will begin to understand how and why so many people begin to derail themselves when it comes the use of the Law of Attraction.  Yes, rationalizing and making excuses are the number one reasons people do not see the success they are looking for when it comes to the desired manifestations from the Law of Attraction.

How can that be, you ask?  Well let's examine this for a minute.  When you are in the state of rationalizing your thoughts, you are more times than not in the process of trying to make something fit in a situation that will not fit, no matter how hard you try.  Then when things fall apart, and they always do or they fall short, what is the first thing you say, "this Law of Attraction thing doesn't work, it is bunch of garbage".  When all along it was you the derailed the process by trying to make things fit that were never meant to fit!  Rationalizing your thoughts is the start of making excuses, the start of dumping your responsibility, your personal responsibility in creating your own journey.  When you begin to make excuses you actually are beginning the process of creating and experiencing contrast.  Why is that, as you are sabotaging yourself, therefore, the Law of Attraction now sets into motion "contrast" , which as we have come to know is merely a desire indicator.  So the Law of Attraction really does work as it is now working to show you the path back to your desires, the path you said you wanted to be on, the path that is filled with your desires.  When you begin to experience that which you do not want, remember you are just experiencing "contrast" which means the Law of Attraction is working with you to get you to focus back on your desires.  When this process happens, what is the first thing you begin to think and feel?  "I don't want this stuff?  I don't want to be feeling this way?  Why is this happening to me?"  Once you get off the "oh pity me merry-go-round" , you then begin to explore that which you really do want to experience in life, you begin to explore how you want to feel.  Think about this carefully for a minute.  You experience that which you do not want to experience and the very next thing to enter into your reality is that which you do want to experience, but now you begin to feel a more complete and concise feel to that desire.  You begin to have more awareness of that which you desire.  You are now more open to the Law of Attraction and now have more ability to see the steps that will bring forth the manifestation of that very heartfelt desire.  You now are beginning to understand the process, you now are beginning to feel how the process works, how manifestations occur when we ourselves do not have a clear feeling of those very desires.  This is how the process truly works, assists us through the process, ensuring we have every opportunity to experience that which we desire.

Having an understanding of how the process works is half the battle.  We as human beings will always from time to time try and rationalize out thoughts and create excuses.  That is just part of the process, that is the life we live.  While we did not fully come into this physical existence to work the process in this manner, we did place fail safes along the way to ensure we have every opportunity afforded us so we may experience all that we do desire.  Very profound when you keep it in the proper perspective, having the understanding and awareness to maneuver through a process which on face value may appear to be self sabotage when in reality is an avenue that allows the fullest experience and expression of the very desires we have and want to experience within physical form. 

Now that we have covered the basics, let us set forth an example to further provide awareness of this issue.

You heard about a job opening in the company where your friend works.  Now this is a company that you have wanted to work at for a very long time.  They pay their employees very well, they have a very generous benefits package and the Company Executives continually demonstrate their appreciation and gratitude for their work force, as they truly realize and understand just how important each individual is to the entire organization.  You are nearly beside yourself that there is an opening.  You boldly submit your resume.  They ask you to fill out a pre-employment application/questionnaire.  You do this with excitement and anticipation and return it to the Human Resources Department.  The individual takes it with a smile on his face and indicates that once the application process has closed they will be setting up interviews for those that are qualified.  You smile and say thank you and resume your life.  You leave the building with a certain bounce in your step, feeling as though you have the job.  A day goes by, then two and then three go by.  Your friend continues to assure you that the application process has not closed, but you don't hear that.  You now begin to rationalize your thoughts, saying things to yourself such as, "well my qualifications probably are not what they are looking for at this time", "they probably had hundreds of applicants, 98% of which were better than me", "why would they want me, what could I possibly offer a great company like that", "why am I even looking for a job, I already have one and even though I hate it, it is comfortable so why do I want to put myself through getting another job", "what was I thinking, the pay for that job is nearly three times what I currently make, who am I kidding", "how could I ever have thought that I could land a job like that, it is way out of my league", "get real, that is a dream job and I must have been in dream land to think they would want me".  This list could go on and on, think about yourself in that situation for a moment and come up with your own rationalized thoughts in that situation.  Days four, five, six and seven go by.  All the while your friend has been telling you that the application process has not closed yet but on day eight the process will close per company guidelines.  But all you heard was that there was no way in hell you are getting an interview for that job.  You have taken yourself from happiness, joyfulness and that knowing feeling of getting that job to a state of not even caring about the job any longer, as now you are trying to convince yourself that the job you have is all you are worthy of at this point in time.  On day ten you have all but forgotten about that resume you put in at dreamland, telling yourself it was their loss, you are way better than that company and why would you put yourself with a company that doesn't realize and recognize what a great employee you would be for them.  Thinking of all the reasons you need to be where you are, your cell phone rings and you think who is calling me, everyone I know, knows I am at work.  You look at the number, don't recognize it and figure what the hell, I'll answer it.  You do and you hear an unfamiliar voice.  Then it dawns on you that it's a call from Human Resources of the great company, setting up an interview for the position they have open!  Now look at all the rationalization you went through because the time did not fit your liking, the time was not so immediate, that you did not get what you wanted when you wanted it!  Think about this scenario for a minute, and now think about a similar scenario within your life where you made similar choices with rational thought and excuses.  Making even more sense now isn't it!  Now you have even more awareness of the Law of Attraction process, but now an awareness that will help guide you through what was once a very difficult process but is now an enlightened path!

To learn more on this topic, be sure to join Mary Anne and Dave on Blog Talk Radio, Friday at 1P.M. as they dialog on this very topic!  Tune in at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC  Visit them at www.ITSCcoaching.com to learn more about them and what they have to offer.  Be sure to check out their "Resources Tab" on their web site to get your free tools today to create your better tomorrow!

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

Mary Anne Cipressy and David Trippany

Life Coaches with ITSC Coaching, LLC

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YOUR LIFE ~ A CO-CREATIVE JOURNEY

 Have you ever taken a quick minute to think about your life and all you have within your life?  And then have you taken that same quick minute to think about all those individuals that have helped you create, manifest and experience all that you have within your life?  If not do so, as you would be amazed to think about all those that helped you experience every heartfelt desire that you have experienced to this point in your life!  The amount of individuals is staggering to say the least.  And we are sure have only realized about a third of those responsible for actually assisting you in creating that which you desired!  Yes, but a mere third as you did not stop to take into account all those that worked behind the scenes to bring your heartfelt desires into your physical reality.  Now you are scratching your head and thinking just what do you mean?!  Let us tell you what we mean, all the individuals that worked on anything you needed – meaning any device you wanted (car, phone, stereo, music cd, movie….and the list can go on forever) a multitude of folks worked on those items to bring them into your existence.  Think about the last car that you desired and then were able to manifest and experience.  The car had to be made, then it had to be transported to the place you purchased it and then it had to have a sales person to sell it to you and then if you financed it you had to utilize a whole network of individuals to make that happen and then you had to have the detailers work their magic and then finally it was in your hands.  Look at all the individuals that worked behind the scenes that helped you create, manifest and experience your desire.  Well it is the same for each and every desire you have with your physical reality!  Staggering to say the least, that so many individuals help you with each and every desire you have, each and every desire you want to create, manifest and experience!!  Gives a new meaning to the saying, “We Are All One Within This Physical World”!  Actually puts it in a much better perspective, one that is easier to wrap our minds around and assist us in truly understanding the Law of Attraction!

When we say “Your Life ~ A Co-Creative Journey” that is exactly what we mean, your life, your journey is a series of Co-Creative events that you have set out to experience while you are here on this physical plane.  With this perspective, it gives a whole new meaning to your life, a whole new purpose to your existence as well as a new drive to achieving that which you truly desire.  Imagine if you will, hundreds of individuals just waiting to assist you in achieving that which you want to experience while here on earth.  They are just waiting for that opportunity to help you enjoy the feelings that will abound from your heartfelt desire.  Now go one step further and put yourself in that role of being an individual just waiting to assist someone else with bringing into their physical reality that which they truly desire!  Well, you are!  You do work within that role!  Think about it, how many times a day do you assist someone else in either helping them achieve their heartfelt desire or assist them in working towards that heartfelt desire?  Remember, the manifestation process is one of a multitude of steps needed to be taken by any individual that is creating their reality.  We all work within both roles each and every minute of every day, whether we realize it or not, we are working dual roles.  How amazing is that to actually stop and think about this process and feel this process.  As you become more and more aware of this process, the more and more you begin to feel the process and the more that happens the more you become an active participant that is deliberately creating that which they truly want, they truly have a heartfelt desire to experience and feel!  Just an amazing process that we live and breath with in each and every day of our physical lives.

So the next time you do something as simple as get a drink of water, stop for a quick minute and think about how many individuals it took to help you create, manifest and experience that simple drink of water.  You will simply say WOW!  Then the next time you go for a much larger creation to manifest and experience, say something such as a home or a car, by remember this process, it may just make it a little easier to create, manifest and experience as now you realize you are not doing it all by yourself, that there are countless individuals out there that want to see and feel you achieve and realize that which you truly desire!  Makes the process seem much easier now doesn’t it!  And do the same the next time you are assisting someone else achieve and realize that which they are trying to create and experience within their physical reality, will make you feel what this process and life are truly all about!!  WOW, what a process!  When you really realize what it is all about, it gives you a whole new appreciation of it!  Perhaps now you have a whole new appreciation for the statement, “the joy is in the journey” as it really is and now you understand that it is both in the receiving of the experience and also in the giving of the experience!  What a concept, a concept that we all created to ensure we have joy in both the giving and receiving of heartfelt desires!  Ponder on these thoughts and you will feel the journey’s joy from every angle!

To learn more about this topic, be sure to join Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany this Friday at 1PM (eastern) on Blog Talk Radio at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC and either just listen in to the dialog or feel free to join in and become part of the dialog.  Either way, you will be glad you did!

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Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

Life Coaches with ITSC Coaching, LLC

 

OUR UNIQUE RELATIONSHIP WITH “SELF”

How many times have you felt all alone?   Be honest with yourself when you answer that question!  Most of us at one time or another have felt that very way, all alone!  At those moments in time we fail to realize what a great and unique relationship we truly have with ourselves.  We, in those moments, are as far from ourselves as we can possibly be, and we never realize it is only a perspective.  We can never separate the two aspects of our being, the physical from the non physical.  That is like trying to separate each individual ray of sunshine from the sun as the beams reach the earth.  Virtually impossible to do so, even though there are trillions upon trillions of rays that make up the sunshine as we know them.  We are the same, we can’t separate our beings, as it is that vary uniqueness that makes us who we are while on this physical plane.  It is that relationship that makes us so very special and unique.  This is why when we do feel all alone it is only a mere perspective that has us feeling that way.  We are never alone, never! 

Let’s explore that thought for just a moment.  Have you ever had a conversation with yourself?  Sure you have, we all do it, nearly on an hourly basis.  Whether you are just mulling over your thoughts, trying to make a decision or just having a simple day dream – you are conversing with yourself.  It is a real conversation as within that conversation you experience a wide array of emotions, you answer yourself and you have that unique ability to either make yourself feel better or feel worse – just as you do when you interact with another human being.  Think about it, you always have someone with you, every second of every minute, you have you!  Don’t think so, go to a mirror and look at yourself.  Look long, hard and deeply within that being you see staring back at you in the mirror.  Then say “hello”!  Start a conversation, no matter how silly you may feel in doing so, start that conversation.  Before long, you will begin to understand that your best friend within this physical plane is looking back at you!  The being that will never steer you in the wrong direction, the being that always without fail or doubt has your back, the being that knows you like no other being and yes the being that loves you beyond measure…….is the being that you are conversing with, is the being that is looking back at you, is the being that with every thought, every utterance (whether verbal or non verbal) is actually saying how much they love you and how much they want you to experience every desire that you have ever had or ever will have and further more will help you with all their might to get you to the point of manifesting and experiencing each of those desires!  Now how magnificent is that?!  How wonderful of a gift is that?!!!  That is truly how special and unique our relationship is with ourselves!  Discovering this perspective, that being “alone” is just that a “perspective” allows us to discover what life really is all about, why we decided to come forth into this physical reality in the first place and that when we decided to birth ourselves into this journey we know beyond any doubt that we would never be alone.  We would always have a great gift, we would always have ourselves, hence never being alone!

When you begin to realize this great gift we have in self, you begin to realize that magic, what we perceive to be magic anyways, that we posses within the creation process.  Imagine, if you will for one minute, this thought.  You realize a desire that you have, one that you truly want to manifest and experience.  Makes no difference what this desire is, only matters that it is heartfelt and you know it is!  You have it realized in your mind’s eye, you feel on every level of your being.  But this time you have the knowledge that you are not alone, you have that magnificent gift of “self” and the understanding of what “self” is truly all about!  With that understanding at hand, you now can begin to create in a whole new way, as now you can truly interact with your greatest gift, “yourself” and in a very creative and deliberate way.  You can now allow “self” to help guide you in the direction of the true manifestation and experience of that very heartfelt desire!  Who cares how long it may take, makes no difference as now you know beyond doubt that it is not just your physical self creating the desire, but your non physical self as well.  You begin to enjoy the journey just a little more as you now understand the sentiment, “a joy that is shared is a joy made double, while a sorrow that is shared is but half a trouble”!  You begin to know, you begin a deep seeded belief that you are never alone, that you always have you to count on for anything at anytime in anyplace!  How magnificent is that!

Begin to understand yourself, begin to deliberately have conversations with yourself and you will truly begin to live life from a new and most empowering perspective.  A perspective that will serve you in ways that you never thought possible as you will now have a guide that now only knows each and every desire you have but further knows how to assist you in not just manifesting these heartfelt desires but in the most deepest and meaningful way to experience them! 

“SELF” the most magnificent gift we have within this physical place, yet it is the one gift we so often overlook.  Just realize that this amazing best friend, this amazing best friend that truly wants joy, happiness and love with our lives is merely a thought away!  Imagine that, just a thought away!  How empowering is that, how beautiful is that, how magnificent is that?!!!!  Puts an amazing perspective on “SELF” now doesn’t it?!!!  Sure does!

To learn more, log onto www.blogtalkradion.com/ITSC Friday from 1PM to 2PM as Mary Anne and David dialog on this very topic!  Sit back and enjoy listening to the dialog or join in either in the chat room or by phoning into the show!  Any way you decide to experience the dialog, you will be glad you joined!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until then, begin to understand the vast uniqueness of “SELF”, begin to understand the magnificent gift we each have within “SELF” and you too will begin to live and experience a life of desire.  Until then, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and David W. Trippany

Life Coaches with ITSC, LLC.

LOOKING BEYOND LOGIC

 “Logic is a systematic method of coming to the wrong conclusion with confidence”.  Now there is a real thought provoking statement if we have ever heard one.  While it is thought provoking it is most certainly one of the most true statements we have heard as well.  To properly create our journeys however, we must look beyond logic to be as successful as we would like to be.

Societal conditioning plays a large role when it comes to creating through logic.  It happens each and every day.  Read the newspaper, listen to the radio or simply just turn on your television and you will be conditioned by society without ever realizing it is taking place.  It happens through advertising as well as happening through the news being presented to you via any of the mentioned vehicles.  You are offered perspectives on each of those subjects, a perspective which is viewed as acceptable societal perspectives.  Most of us adopt the perspective that is offered as it is easy to do so.  I heard it on the radio, therefore it must be true.  I saw it on the television, therefore it must be true.  I read it in the newspaper, therefore it must be true.  Each of us falls victim to it as we all have been conditioned at some point in our early life that if information is put across to us via the media in whatever form there has to be some truth to it.  Otherwise it is slanderous and the provider of the information will suffer ugly consequences for putting forth lies.  This is only true in the perfect world as we know behind all information presented to us, there are only a few truths.  One of which is societal conditioning, as the powers that be want us to think a certain way for whatever reasoning they have at that moment.  Another is for pure profit.  How many times have you seen something work simply fantastic on TV only to go out and buy the item to suffer disappointment, not mention being feeling as though you wasted your money.  You see, logic plays directly into these scenarios.   

 As it is our logical mind that is telling us that it must be true otherwise the provider of the information just wouldn’t be saying it!  Go back to the beginning of this paragraph and re-read it to fully understand the concept we are talking about here.  Further, think back to when the information was first presented to you via any of the formats discussed.  Really think back to that exact time.  Now that you have that time fully resurrected within your memory bank, now think back to what your “gut” was telling you then.  Be honest!  We are sure you will remember feeling something such as this: “that information just isn’t feeling as those it is really accurate”, “my gut is telling me that the product being offered will not give me the results that are being shown”, “yea right, that course will not make me a millionaire over night”.  But we allow our logical mind to override our gut most of the time.  Why you ask, mostly because we view the information that we are hearing or seeing as a way to make our life easier in some form or fashion, therefore it must be truthful.  All the while our “gut” is telling us otherwise.  

 We have been taught to listen to our logical mind rather than our “gut instincts” as we are taught to live life from the standpoint that we are not individuals.  Living life from the “individual” standpoint makes us greedy, unkind and worse yet very uncaring towards our fellow man.  Think about this for a moment, let your “gut” do your thinking and not your logical mind!  What is your “gut” telling you now?  What is your “gut” allowing you to feel?  Perhaps it is now time to begin to feel your own power, to self-empower yourself within your journey to begin to live the life you came forth to experience, and experience in the manner in which you want to experience it and not how someone else tells you that you should be experiencing it.  Remember, only you can create your journey, no one else can do it for you, only you! 

With that in mind, give some real thought to the opening statement” “Logic is a systematic method of coming to the wrong conclusion with confidence”.  Feel different now doesn’t it?!  Interesting when you begin living life through a self empowered perspective, now isn’t it?!!!

Bring your new self empowered perspective with you as you learn more about “Looking Beyond Logic” Friday on Blog Talk Radio when Mary Anne and Dave dialog on this very topic!  Go to www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC and listen in or join in the dialog.  Friday, May 20, 2011 from 4pm to 5pm est.  Build upon your newly form perspective, bringing forth the real you and begin to create and manifest that which you truly desire!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until then, enjoy your new found self empowering new perspective and truly begin to experience all that you desire!  Remember, it is only you that can create for you, no one else, only you!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

 

Obstacles or Opportunities

Is an obstacle or challenge really an obstacle? The answer to this question depends on how you view and think about the obstacle.  There are somethings about what we call obstacles that may help you answer this question.

Many so called obstacles are actually self created in our minds. They are not actually real. The only place they exist is in our mind. It is out thinking,beliefs that are creating them in the first place. They then become powered by our emotional reaction.

As an example say you have a desire to be more organized...yet you have identified your self as a procrastinator. You now see this aspect of yourself as an obstacle or challenge to you being organized. You think you must overcome your procrastination in order to be organized. Yet with each attempt you fall short and grow increasingly more frustrated with each attempt. 

The reason for all of this is cause you have set up in your mind that your procrastination is what is keeping you from being organized. You have identified the procrastination as the cause of you not becoming organized. You have created the obstacle of procrastination as what is standing in your way. When what is standing in your way is this thought process. It is the thought process that you have created that is creating this illusion that procrastination is the obstacle.

In all of this though there is an opportunity to experience growth.  The procrastination and the desire to be organized  really have nothing to do with each other than the fact that you have declared it so. So what you want to do is to focus on the desire it self and not the procrastination. You want to declare your self as organized and then more forward from there. You want to then look at ways that feel good to you that help you experience more organization. Focus on the organization and not the procrastination. This will help you easily shift  towards what you want without having to overcome anything.

Excerpts from the article Living in Denial

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 Of late it has come into our awareness that many us without realizing it are living in denial of who we really are.  We all do this in some way or another and how it shows up in your life is in how you perceive yourself, how you are thinking about yourself and how you are feeling about yourself. It can show up in big ways as well as small ways. 

We all have things about ourselves that we do not like. It can be something out our physical bodies, something about our personality or something about how we act in certain situations. It really does not matter how it is showing up, it is in recognizing what it is telling us that matters. It is also important to look at how we are handling this to better understand who we really are.

You are empowered to be anything you desire. When you use your empowerment to be the catalyst for the change you desire, you will bring about that change.  It starts with accepting where you are right now, seeing yourself as a empowered person and using that empowerment to change your thoughts, beliefs and how you are feeling to reach new heights of empowerment.