How Well Do You Listen

 

Now when we ask that question, we are not referring to how well you listen to someone when you are in a conversation, but rather we are asking how well do you listen to yourself?  Yes, that is correct, how well do you listen to yourself?  We feel this is a question that is all too often not even asked let alone honestly answered!  So we pose this question to you, how well do you listen………to yourself?!!

 

We all have an inner voice, a gut feeling if you will.  Each of us is equipped with this valuable tool, the tool that actually connects us to our non-physical aspect of ourselves.  The tool that works hand in hand with the Law of Attraction.  One can say that this tool is our golden tool that has been created by us to help us achieve our desires within our journeys!  Yes that little voice that so many dismiss is the voice of our road map, the sound of the direction we truly want to take on our journey.  You can compare it to the GPS Programs that are currently out there, that help us find our destinations.  Just as with these GPS Programs, when we make an incorrect turn or even miss our turn, we hear the following: “recalculating”.  Well our own internal GPS Program, which we refer to as “The Language Of Self”, does the exact same thing when we miss directions or refuse to follow the directions given to us.  Our Language of Self offers “recalculations” to get us back on track.  We designed this, we created this, we brought this into this physical reality with ourselves so we could be successful when creating our desires.  Brilliant if you ask us!  It shows us that we are not only serious about creating our desires but experiencing them as well!  After all, isn’t that what life truly is all about, experiencing one’s heartfelt desires?!!!

 

However, with all that being said, each of us needs to take the time to truly understand all that.  As it is through understanding that we truly begin to appreciate our golden tool, that we truly appreciate our individual Language of Self Program that is deeply embedded within each of us, the connective tissue that truly makes our physical and non-physical one complete aspect, one complete being.  When you understand your own Language of Self, and have true trust, faith and belief in your Language of Self, then and only then do you understand and appreciate being United In Acceptance.  By that we are saying that you understand, appreciate and accept that you are a whole and complete being, physical and non-physical, where there is no separation, that you are a whole aspect of those two parts.  It is just like saying you are a whole and complete being that has skin (outer aspect) and bones (inner aspect).  The same is with your physical and non-physical.  You truly can’t have one without the other.  The only separation there can be is one of perspective, but it is just an illusion on your part.  There truly is no separation.  Even when you have adopted the perspective of separation, you still have that gut feeling, you still hear that inner voice, you now have an over whelming feeling of emptiness.  You feel empty, lost……..depression is good way to describe the feelings within you at that point, as well as low self esteem, no self worth.  The list could go on and on.  You feel this as when you adopted the perspective that there is a separation, you have actually just stifled the largest aspect of you, your non-physical aspect.  You have turned your back on yourself, and it is the aspect of you that holds your road map, the directions to where you said you wanted to be, the experiences you wanted to create, manifest and experience.  By adopting that perspective of separation, you just told yourself that you will not listen to yourself, you will not follow your own road map.  You are turning your back on that which you said you wanted to create, manifest and experience!  In doing so, you created a gap between the physical you and the non-physical you.  Now is there really a gap there, no of course not, but you “perceive” there one to be, so your perspective tells you to believe the illusion you have created for yourself, even though it is wrong.  While doing this, you get all those contrasting feelings, all the feelings we all perceive to be negative, worthlessness, no self esteem – here we go with that list again – and this is because your non-physical self is trying to get you to understand that you need to adopt a new perspective, a perspective that brings into your reality that of your non-physical self.  Awaken into your reality your largest aspect, your non-physical aspect and in doing so you will begin to feel the worth of self, your self esteem will begin to reach new heights you never believed were achievable and you will begin to thirst for your creative powers to begin creating that life you always new was there for you, but didn’t know how to achieve.  You took personal responsibility, you adopted that perspective to allow your non-physical aspect to be a live and viable part of your journey.  You are allowing yourself the ability to listen and act upon the words, thoughts and feelings of your non-physical aspect.  In doing this, you begin to feel your own creative powers as you never have before felt them, you begin to feel an inner strength that seems to grow with each passing second, as it truly is, as you are allowing your own creative powers to be fulfilled, to come into your physical reality and truly show you the way to creating, manifesting and experiencing your true heartfelt desires.  You are now allowing yourself to really experience life as you came forth to experience it and it feels good!

Are you beginning to understand and accept the true magnificence of your non-physical self?  Are you beginning to understand that it is not separate from your physical self, but rather that large internal aspect of self?  Are you beginning to feel the true importance of this aspect of self?  Are you beginning to realize that your own personal road map is well within you, always has been, always will be and will never steer you in a wrong direction but rather always ensure you are centered on your correct path?  Are you truly beginning to understand that absolute greatness of self, your whole and complete self?  We are certain you are beginning to get it, beginning to really understand this concept and are taking steps as you read this to truly awaken that giant within you, your giant self!

So we ask you once again, how well do you listen?  We are certain your listening abilities have adopted a whole new perspective by this point in time, than when you first began reading this.  We are happy your perspective is beginning to change, beginning to evolve, as the more happiness and success you achieve the more happiness and success we all achieve!  Now there is the power within co-creating life!

To learn more, visit us at ITSCcoaching.com  We are happy to share with you, after all, isn’t this life all about a co-creative journey?  Sure it is, as we help each other we actually are helping ourselves!  Now there is a powerful thought that will help you in adopting some new and valuable perspectives!!

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and David W. Trippany

Life Coaches with ITSC

 

OUR UNIQUE RELATIONSHIP WITH “SELF”

How many times have you felt all alone?   Be honest with yourself when you answer that question!  Most of us at one time or another have felt that very way, all alone!  At those moments in time we fail to realize what a great and unique relationship we truly have with ourselves.  We, in those moments, are as far from ourselves as we can possibly be, and we never realize it is only a perspective.  We can never separate the two aspects of our being, the physical from the non physical.  That is like trying to separate each individual ray of sunshine from the sun as the beams reach the earth.  Virtually impossible to do so, even though there are trillions upon trillions of rays that make up the sunshine as we know them.  We are the same, we can’t separate our beings, as it is that vary uniqueness that makes us who we are while on this physical plane.  It is that relationship that makes us so very special and unique.  This is why when we do feel all alone it is only a mere perspective that has us feeling that way.  We are never alone, never! 

Let’s explore that thought for just a moment.  Have you ever had a conversation with yourself?  Sure you have, we all do it, nearly on an hourly basis.  Whether you are just mulling over your thoughts, trying to make a decision or just having a simple day dream – you are conversing with yourself.  It is a real conversation as within that conversation you experience a wide array of emotions, you answer yourself and you have that unique ability to either make yourself feel better or feel worse – just as you do when you interact with another human being.  Think about it, you always have someone with you, every second of every minute, you have you!  Don’t think so, go to a mirror and look at yourself.  Look long, hard and deeply within that being you see staring back at you in the mirror.  Then say “hello”!  Start a conversation, no matter how silly you may feel in doing so, start that conversation.  Before long, you will begin to understand that your best friend within this physical plane is looking back at you!  The being that will never steer you in the wrong direction, the being that always without fail or doubt has your back, the being that knows you like no other being and yes the being that loves you beyond measure…….is the being that you are conversing with, is the being that is looking back at you, is the being that with every thought, every utterance (whether verbal or non verbal) is actually saying how much they love you and how much they want you to experience every desire that you have ever had or ever will have and further more will help you with all their might to get you to the point of manifesting and experiencing each of those desires!  Now how magnificent is that?!  How wonderful of a gift is that?!!!  That is truly how special and unique our relationship is with ourselves!  Discovering this perspective, that being “alone” is just that a “perspective” allows us to discover what life really is all about, why we decided to come forth into this physical reality in the first place and that when we decided to birth ourselves into this journey we know beyond any doubt that we would never be alone.  We would always have a great gift, we would always have ourselves, hence never being alone!

When you begin to realize this great gift we have in self, you begin to realize that magic, what we perceive to be magic anyways, that we posses within the creation process.  Imagine, if you will for one minute, this thought.  You realize a desire that you have, one that you truly want to manifest and experience.  Makes no difference what this desire is, only matters that it is heartfelt and you know it is!  You have it realized in your mind’s eye, you feel on every level of your being.  But this time you have the knowledge that you are not alone, you have that magnificent gift of “self” and the understanding of what “self” is truly all about!  With that understanding at hand, you now can begin to create in a whole new way, as now you can truly interact with your greatest gift, “yourself” and in a very creative and deliberate way.  You can now allow “self” to help guide you in the direction of the true manifestation and experience of that very heartfelt desire!  Who cares how long it may take, makes no difference as now you know beyond doubt that it is not just your physical self creating the desire, but your non physical self as well.  You begin to enjoy the journey just a little more as you now understand the sentiment, “a joy that is shared is a joy made double, while a sorrow that is shared is but half a trouble”!  You begin to know, you begin a deep seeded belief that you are never alone, that you always have you to count on for anything at anytime in anyplace!  How magnificent is that!

Begin to understand yourself, begin to deliberately have conversations with yourself and you will truly begin to live life from a new and most empowering perspective.  A perspective that will serve you in ways that you never thought possible as you will now have a guide that now only knows each and every desire you have but further knows how to assist you in not just manifesting these heartfelt desires but in the most deepest and meaningful way to experience them! 

“SELF” the most magnificent gift we have within this physical place, yet it is the one gift we so often overlook.  Just realize that this amazing best friend, this amazing best friend that truly wants joy, happiness and love with our lives is merely a thought away!  Imagine that, just a thought away!  How empowering is that, how beautiful is that, how magnificent is that?!!!!  Puts an amazing perspective on “SELF” now doesn’t it?!!!  Sure does!

To learn more, log onto www.blogtalkradion.com/ITSC Friday from 1PM to 2PM as Mary Anne and David dialog on this very topic!  Sit back and enjoy listening to the dialog or join in either in the chat room or by phoning into the show!  Any way you decide to experience the dialog, you will be glad you joined!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until then, begin to understand the vast uniqueness of “SELF”, begin to understand the magnificent gift we each have within “SELF” and you too will begin to live and experience a life of desire.  Until then, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and David W. Trippany

Life Coaches with ITSC, LLC.