CREATING MY REALITY

"First comes thought; then organization of that thought, into ideas and plans; then transformation of those plans into reality. The beginning, as you will observe, is in your imagination." Napoleon Hill

 

That is a very interesting process to say the least!  Have you ever thought about what your reality is?  Have you ever taken the time to realize that you do create your own reality?  Have you even considered that you are a magnificent creator?  We can go on and on with the “have you” observations, but we really need to concentrate on one simple fact for a moment, that we truly are the creators of our own reality.

Stop and think for one moment that through your thought process and belief system, you are actually creating on a daily basis the reality that you are experiencing.  Especially so, if you are experiencing that which you really are not wanting to experience.  We call that type of experience “contrast”.  We have come to know “contrast as merely a desire indicator”.  In other words, when you experience that which you do not like, the Law of Attraction is merely bringing into your reality the opportunity for you to refocus on that which you truly do desire.  This is why we say that there really is no negative experiences to be experienced, as the negative situations are merely helping you refocus and determine what it is you do desire, what desire you are trying to create but for whatever reason lost your focus.  We seem to have come to a creative process where we have mastered creating situations that are full of contrast and don really care to be experiencing.  So if we have come to master that aspect of creating and filling our reality with that which we really don’t care to experience, then just how come we have not mastered creating our true heartfelt desires?  That is a great question!  There are a multitude of answers.  However, the one we like the most as it resonates the best with us is because we have been conditioned to create this way!  We have been taught to create this way!  As told in “The Secret”, as individuals came to understand The Law Of Attraction, the wanted to keep it to themselves, a small group with misguided thoughts and motives.  They did not want to share this great gift that is there for all to not only enjoy but live their life by each and every day they are within the wonderful physical plane.  Why you ask?  That answer is quite simple, “FEAR”.  Fear is a powerful motivator of mankind.  Look around you each day and see how many times you are bombarded with some fear based thought to get you to think, respond and live your life a certain way.  It is all around us, listen to the news, read the newspaper or simply turn on your TV and you will see that fear is thrown in our face hour by hour!  Basically, those that knew of this powerful Law of Attraction wanted o keep and hold it for themselves, because if everyone knew of this magnificent power, then perhaps there will not be enough to go around or perhaps the power itself would not be so great!  Remember, information itself is held as a great power source within our society!  That is evidenced each and every day, just look around and listen!  Now that we realize that fear plays a large role in our ability to be “Contrast Creators”, perhaps we can see fear for what it really is: False Evidence Appearing Real, and take the steps to become deliberate creators and create our desires to experience, manifest our desires to experience, live our life the way we intended to live it!

Sounds easy because it is easy!  Remember you are a creator being.  Every religion, every dogma, every spiritual based thought process tells us that we are creator beings.  Knowing that knowledge should lend you a hand in becoming the magnificent creator you are within this physical plane!  Begin to feel your own self power and as you do you will feel it empower you making you realize that you are a self empowered creator, one that can and will create the reality that you not only desire but yes deserve!  That is huge!  We do deserve to experience that which we desire.  Every being walking on this planet deserves to experience their heartfelt desire and we all need to develop that perspective!  Once we do this, we can then begin to develop a true and loving relationship with ourselves and then and only then can we begin to dive into our pool of desires and not just know the vastness of that pool but can now begin to feel that pool and understand through feeling that which we want to create, manifest and experience!  We each have wonderful desire pools and each of us deserve to create from that pool rather then  create the contrast to help us only to realize that we need to focus on that pool!  Become a self empowered individual and you too will become a self empowered creator that can and will become a true creator of your true reality, a reality that reflects who you truly are as an individual within this physical plane!

Begin to feel your own empowerment and you too will begin to feel yourself create the reality you both desire and deserve!  You’ve mastered creating contrast, now give creating desire a try, you will be so glad you did!

To learn more about creating your reality, be sure to tune into ITSC’s show on Blog Talk Radio by visiting www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC.  Mary Anne and Dave will be dialoging on this topic and invite you to listen and join in the dialog!  4pm eastern each Friday!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until then, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

 

WHAT REALLY MATTERS

THE SECRET IN DEPTH

 

We have come to know that The Secret is based on The Law Of Attraction, which simply dictates “Like Attracts Like”.  Further we have come to learn that The Secret /The Law Of Attraction are solely based on “how we feel”.  In other words, how we feel at any given time on any given subject is a good indication of what we are in the process of creating and bringing into our own personal reality.  With all that being said, what really does matter?!!!

Let’s examine this question for a moment, shall we.  When we are in the creation process, really every second of every day, we are trying to bring into our path a certain feeling, usually a good feeling.  Whatever it is we are trying to create, it is a feeling we are seeking.  Whether it is an object – some device we feel will make our life better or more enjoyable, an item – a report we are working on for work, hoping to hear the praises of our boss, or simply more freedom within our hectic life so that we can have more time to enjoy our journey.  Each of those examples has attached to them certain feelings.  The attached feelings are truly what we are seeking, not necessarily the items themselves.  Certainly the items themselves being successfully completed are a plus, but it is the underlying feeling that we really are trying to achieve and manifest.  When we fall short of our desires is when the sought after feeling is lost……or is it.  This is where your choice in perspectives is extremely important!  Using the examples above, the device, let’s say it was suppose to be the top of the line i-pod, which didn’t manifest just as you desired, but did manage to manifest an mp3 player.  A friend gave you an old one they were no longer using.  It worked and it did achieve the underlying desire to provide music when you were working out.  However, because you did not manifest the ipod, you now feel cheated by The Law of Attraction.  “Perspective Shift Time”!!!  While you did not manifest exactly what your intended desire was, you were able to satisfy the overall desire.  Therefore, when you change your perspective, your desire was secured.  Next the business report.  You completed it and gave it to your boss.  Your desire was to receive an abundance of praises from your boss, however, you merely received a simple “thank you”.  This left you feeling less than adequate for the services you rendered to your boss.  “Perspective Shift Time”!!!  Sure you worked your heart out on the business report and you know you gave 110% while working on the business report and you know it was a fantastic report that will have a positive impact on the company and bring success beyond what your company is currently seeing.  We tend to all too quickly excuse the self praise we give ourselves at times, thinking that it means little to nothing as it didn’t come from someone else.  But the self praise did make us feel fantastic!  Therefore, when you change your perspective, your desire was secured – you did get praised, just not from your boss.  But who is to say that after your boss presents the report to the company, because you did adopt that personal triumph perspective, that in the future you won’t receive the praise you originally were seeking.  Had you not adopted that new perspective who knows what The Law of Attraction would have brought into your reality!!!  Remember, like attracts like!!!  Lastly let’s look at the desire for more freedom within your life.  Perhaps all that manifested was an extra hour for your lunch break.  You feel short changed as you were hoping the lottery was going to come in for you and all you would have was freedom.  “Perspective Shift Time”!!!  We all would like to have the freedom a lottery win may bring, but being grateful and appreciative of the little things that cross our path is just as important.  Having the perspective that an extra hour at lunch certainly did improve your mood for the day, lending you the opportunity to not just rest but reflect as well at how much you appreciate little times where you can have for yourself to just rest, be still and truly appreciate all that you have and all that you know you can create!  Slight perspective shifts in each scenario is all it took to observe what really mattered within each situation.  Allowing the real you to emerge and experience what really mattered, what was really important…….feeling good with each desire’s outcome.  Keeping open to all the rich possibilities and most importantly seeing the value within each outcome and enjoying your response to the fullest.  That is what really matters, what we do with what we create, knowing that if it wasn’t a perfect match, when you change your perspective, it was indeed a match – we just had not afforded ourselves the perspective to fully appreciate what we had created!

So what really matters?  A great question if ever we have heard one!  Join Mary Anne and Dave as they dialog on this very intriguing topic, “What Really Matters”.  Visit www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC Friday May 27th, at 4pm (est) and listen in as they tackle this very question!  

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy & Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

www.ITSCcoaching.com

 

Creating With Intent

 There is a common misunderstanding as to what Creating with Intent really means. Creating with intent is not the same as creating an intention to be/do/have something. When you use an intention statement, in the form of a positive affirmation, to create an intention you will often see it formed like this.... "I intend to experience prosperity and abundance in my life" or you might see "I intend that my business is flourishing and income is flowing freely". Another way it is common to use these statements is to say...."It is my intention to let go of fear with ease and grace". When you use these types of statements you are creating an intention. This puts what it is you desire to manifest into the future. Energetically, it puts your manifestation into some future point of time. These types of statements are not definitive statements. Why would you intend to manifest something? Why not just manifest it?

Creating with intent however is creating with focus, attention as in the word intensity. It is creating with intensity, the intensity of your focus, attention....your energy.  This brings your energy into the present moment. The Law of Attraction responds to your energy, what you are feeling. The stronger the intensity of your desire, the larger the manifestation of that desire.

When you create with intent, you have a vision, you can feel that vision. You focus your energy, your thoughts on how that vision feels. When you hold onto this you can actually feel the energy grow and expand.

All things are created energetically long before they ever manifest.If you want to manifest something do not intend to do so but do so with intent, with the intensity of your energy and let that energy grow and expand.  

LOOKING BEYOND LOGIC

 “Logic is a systematic method of coming to the wrong conclusion with confidence”.  Now there is a real thought provoking statement if we have ever heard one.  While it is thought provoking it is most certainly one of the most true statements we have heard as well.  To properly create our journeys however, we must look beyond logic to be as successful as we would like to be.

Societal conditioning plays a large role when it comes to creating through logic.  It happens each and every day.  Read the newspaper, listen to the radio or simply just turn on your television and you will be conditioned by society without ever realizing it is taking place.  It happens through advertising as well as happening through the news being presented to you via any of the mentioned vehicles.  You are offered perspectives on each of those subjects, a perspective which is viewed as acceptable societal perspectives.  Most of us adopt the perspective that is offered as it is easy to do so.  I heard it on the radio, therefore it must be true.  I saw it on the television, therefore it must be true.  I read it in the newspaper, therefore it must be true.  Each of us falls victim to it as we all have been conditioned at some point in our early life that if information is put across to us via the media in whatever form there has to be some truth to it.  Otherwise it is slanderous and the provider of the information will suffer ugly consequences for putting forth lies.  This is only true in the perfect world as we know behind all information presented to us, there are only a few truths.  One of which is societal conditioning, as the powers that be want us to think a certain way for whatever reasoning they have at that moment.  Another is for pure profit.  How many times have you seen something work simply fantastic on TV only to go out and buy the item to suffer disappointment, not mention being feeling as though you wasted your money.  You see, logic plays directly into these scenarios.   

 As it is our logical mind that is telling us that it must be true otherwise the provider of the information just wouldn’t be saying it!  Go back to the beginning of this paragraph and re-read it to fully understand the concept we are talking about here.  Further, think back to when the information was first presented to you via any of the formats discussed.  Really think back to that exact time.  Now that you have that time fully resurrected within your memory bank, now think back to what your “gut” was telling you then.  Be honest!  We are sure you will remember feeling something such as this: “that information just isn’t feeling as those it is really accurate”, “my gut is telling me that the product being offered will not give me the results that are being shown”, “yea right, that course will not make me a millionaire over night”.  But we allow our logical mind to override our gut most of the time.  Why you ask, mostly because we view the information that we are hearing or seeing as a way to make our life easier in some form or fashion, therefore it must be truthful.  All the while our “gut” is telling us otherwise.  

 We have been taught to listen to our logical mind rather than our “gut instincts” as we are taught to live life from the standpoint that we are not individuals.  Living life from the “individual” standpoint makes us greedy, unkind and worse yet very uncaring towards our fellow man.  Think about this for a moment, let your “gut” do your thinking and not your logical mind!  What is your “gut” telling you now?  What is your “gut” allowing you to feel?  Perhaps it is now time to begin to feel your own power, to self-empower yourself within your journey to begin to live the life you came forth to experience, and experience in the manner in which you want to experience it and not how someone else tells you that you should be experiencing it.  Remember, only you can create your journey, no one else can do it for you, only you! 

With that in mind, give some real thought to the opening statement” “Logic is a systematic method of coming to the wrong conclusion with confidence”.  Feel different now doesn’t it?!  Interesting when you begin living life through a self empowered perspective, now isn’t it?!!!

Bring your new self empowered perspective with you as you learn more about “Looking Beyond Logic” Friday on Blog Talk Radio when Mary Anne and Dave dialog on this very topic!  Go to www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC and listen in or join in the dialog.  Friday, May 20, 2011 from 4pm to 5pm est.  Build upon your newly form perspective, bringing forth the real you and begin to create and manifest that which you truly desire!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until then, enjoy your new found self empowering new perspective and truly begin to experience all that you desire!  Remember, it is only you that can create for you, no one else, only you!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

 

Uncovering The Real Secret

 

By now everyone has heard of “The Secret” and most know it as this: just think of something that you want, put your focus on “that” and viola “that” very item will at some point within the near future will miraculously appear into your reality!  That is what some folks actually get out of watching the movie “The Secret”.  Much to their dismay, whatever “that” was that they were seeking doesn’t appear into their reality and they are left fretting and telling everyone that “The Secret” is a load of hogwash and doesn’t work.  It didn’t work for them and couldn’t possibly work for anyone else as they paid attention to the movie and followed the instructions exactly as they were laid out!  Anyone that says it works is either lying or were born rich!  This is what we call the wonderful misconception with regards to “The Secret”.

When one truly uncovers the real information with regards to “The Secret” they begin to understand that it really has nothing to do with what you merely think about during the hours of your day you are awake!  It goes far beyond that concept, but truly is just that easy!  We think that is the hard part that makes understanding “The Secret” so difficult for so many individuals.  It really is that easy. 

First we must realize that we are all creator beings.  You have to understand that basic information before you can search and learn any farther.  You are within the physical plane to create the journey you are on.   However you come to understand this concept (with God’s help, Allah’s help, any form of Spiritual thought process you may subscribe to) you can then dive further into understanding this wonderful “Law of Attraction”.  As most realize, by this point in time, “The Secret IS The Law of Attraction”.  We mention that here, just in case you didn’t know that already.   Further, most do know, but not all, that “The Law of Attraction” simple dictates that “Like IS Attracted To Like”.  Now that we have those two details out of the way, let us continue to reveal “The Real Secret Behind The Secret”.

Just merely “thinking” something into your existence will not bring whatever it is you are trying to manifest into existence.  We know most of you are by now saying, “well why not!”.  Good question that we will answer for you right now.  Because “The Secret or rather The Law of Attraction” does not respond to your thoughts!  It fully responds to “How You Feel”.  That is the realness behind “The Law of Attraction”.  You see, it doesn’t matter what you think.  How many times have you tried to “think” yourself into a better mood, either through mere thoughts or by saying a positive affirmation over and over and over.  And to no end, your mood really doesn’t get any better.  That is because each time you say that thought to yourself, nothing really improves and you tell yourself that this stuff doesn’t work , which makes you feel even worse!  But that is when you should have your “A-HA Moment” as there is your proof that it is working.  “The Law of Attraction” is absolutely working as it is responding to how you feel, which is miserable!  Remember, “like attracts like”. That is “The Real Secret”, “The Law of Attraction” responds to “HOW YOU FEEL – NOT WHAT YOU THINK”!  What an amazing piece of information!  Now that you are beginning to understand the reality behind “The Law of Attraction” what do you do with this new information to make your journey a reflection of your desires.  Yet another good question!  What we generally help people do is recognize when they have to shift their perspective on something.  As it is usually a wrong perspective on something that really is making you feel lousy.  By addressing that issue, your perspective, you can now begin to make yourself feel better, or as we like to say begin to raise your vibrations into the higher end of the spectrum.  Ask us for our “Determine Your Vibrational Range Sheet” to really help you with this aspect. 

So there you have it, “The Secret Behind The Secret”!  Your feelings are your “Operating System” or as we like to refer to them, “The Language of Self”.  It really is your communications system between your “physical Self” (what you see in the mirror) and your “Non-Physical Self” (the aspect you feel of yourself).  Your feelings are your powerful tools to create with “The Law of Attraction”.  Your feelings are your guidance points to create the life that you desire!  Your feelings are your creative tools when it comes to “The Law of Attraction”.  Begin to pay attention to your feelings, listen to your gut and did we mention, “PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR FEELINGS” and you will begin to live the life you desire rather than live the life you dread!  Take a quick minute and think about all this, what do you have to lose…….except perhaps a life that you really aren’t too fond of at this point!

To learn more about “The Real Secret” join us on Friday for our Blog Talk Radio Show, where we will dialog in depth about this very topic!  Join us at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC    You can just listen in or join the show either through our chat room or by phoning into the show!  Begin to deliberately create the life you are seeking, begin to experience your desires rather than just wishing you were!  Come and learn about “The Law of Attraction”, so you too can be the one that everyone just looks at and wishes they were you!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

Are your Beliefs Limiting?

Have you thought about what it is that you believe? Beliefs are the foundation of where we create our lives from. A belief is a chronic and persistent thought that we have held onto over the course of time. We have thought it so many times that it has become a belief. 

A belief can be and often are limiting. This means that if you are not willing to shift, expand or change a belief you are limiting yourself to the possibilities that life can have for you. What you believe yourself to be is what you will be and what you are. This belief effects your perception and perspective on who you say you are. 

If you believe yourself to be something other than who you really are, then that belief is limiting you in your ability to not only be who you are but to experience yourself as a whole and complete being. 

Do you believe that you are not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough? That there is not enough "stuff" to go around? That there is not enough "time", not enough "food", not enough of______ you fill in the blank. These are all limiting beliefs that stem from a core belief that there is something "lacking". There is something "lacking" in you, your life and in the world as a whole.

If when you pay your bills you think or are worried, concerned that you will not or do not have enough money to do so, then this is an indicator that you have a belief that there is only so much money to go around and you do not have enough. This is a limiting belief that is keeping you from being able to have more of what you want.How can you possibly manifest more money when you believe that you do not have enough in the first place...it can't happen.

Limiting beliefs will block you so to speak from manifesting a desire. How can you possibly loose weight when you believe yourself to be fat, see yourself as fat and feel fat. It can't happen.


Here is a little exercise you can do to help you identify your limiting beliefs.
1. Write down a heartfelt desire you have that has not manifested yet.
2. Write down your thoughts in relation to this desire.
3. Write down how those thoughts make you feel
4. From what you wrote in 1-3 what does that tell you that you are believing about the desire. 

You can do this for any desire. In our next post we will talk about how to shift and expand ones beliefs... but until then you can work on exploring your beliefs and identify those that you feel are limiting you from being who you really are and having your desires manifest.    

Mary Anne Cipressy
David Trippany
ITSC Coaching
www.itsccoaching.com

BEING A TAKE CHARGE CREATOR

We all have the ability to create the life that we seek. However, most of us for whatever reason, fail to realize this one simple aspect of our existence: that we are the creator of our own journey. As we know, the Law of Attraction dictates that “Like Is Attracted To Like”. And we all know that the “Law Of Attraction” responds to how we are feeling at any given moment in time. With these two facts being stated, one should begin to realize the amazing power they have with regards to creating their own journey.


It truly is an amazing power when you stop to think about it for a quick minute. Imagine if you will, your life as you absolutely want it to be. Have fun with that imagination. Think and feel every aspect as you truly want them to be each day of your life. Don’t be shy about it, go for broke with this exercise. But while you are doing this keep this one simple rule in place. Make sure that everything you imagine for your life is a “true heartfelt desire”. In other words, make sure that your imagination is as real as possible. Don’t just think that you want money, think of what you want to do with that money, as that is where you really need to place your focus. Now that you have this fantastic visualization going, you really are beginning to feel that your imagination is real and you wonder if you haven’t crossed into the twilight zone as it does feel so real, you then need to do only one thing……..realize that you created it! True, it is only in your mind’s eye, however, you need to know that it is as real as if you were truly living that dream. Sure, at this point in time, you may not be living that dream. But you have set into motion a very powerful aspect of your journey. Your creative aspect! Let us remind you, it is not what you are seeing in your mind’s eye, it is what you are feeling throughout your entire being. That is the aspect that you truly need to focus on. Remember, the “Law of Attraction” responds to how you feel, not what you think or do! So if you are feeling this magnificent imagined life within your mind’s eye, then could you not say that you have just begun to exercise you powerful creative aspect, took charge of your creative abilities, set into motion that desire to live the life you truly want? The answer to all the foregoing questions is “yes”!

While this is a very basic example of what we are talking about when we say “Be A Take Charge Creator”, is does illustrate the point fairly accurately. Now we know some of you out there are thinking that it just can’t be that easy, but rest assured it is. The true secret is understanding that it is all about how you feel and not what you think. Think of this one item for a moment. You keep thinking to yourself that you are a happy go lucky individual, nothing bothers you and that you live a stress free life. However, you feel miserable, lately everything tugs at a nerve and you are living under levels of stress that you are sure are going to do you in very soon! What do you feel the “Law of Attraction” will respond to, what you are thinking or what you are feeling? Most will say what you think. Which the very next statement they will have is “this Law of Attraction stuff doesn’t work!” when all the while it is working brilliantly. Remember, the “Law of Attraction” responds to how we feel!! So within the above analogy, while you are thinking everything is fine – you are feeling absolutely miserable! You see, you are a truly magnificent and powerful creator, you just were never taught, really taught, how your power truly works.

Become a “Take Charge Creator” and truly begin to create the life you desire. Start today! You deserve to live the best life possible! The only one stopping you, is you! It is important to know that only you can create the life you desire. The reason being is because only you know what your heartfelt desires truly are within the life you are living! When you realize that and realize just how powerful your creative abilities are within this physical plane, then you too will become that “Take Charge Creator” you always wanted to become, but just weren’t sure how to go about it.

Listen in the our Blog Talk Radio show this Friday and learn more about this fascinating topic, “BEING A TAKE CHARGE CREATOR”! Mary Anne and Dave will be dialoging on this very topic, helping you gather all the tools you require to become the intentional creator of your journey. Visit us at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC Fridays at 4pm eastern and begin to take charge of your journey and “Become A Take Charge Creator”!

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!



Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

Obstacles or Opportunities

Is an obstacle or challenge really an obstacle? The answer to this question depends on how you view and think about the obstacle.  There are somethings about what we call obstacles that may help you answer this question.

Many so called obstacles are actually self created in our minds. They are not actually real. The only place they exist is in our mind. It is out thinking,beliefs that are creating them in the first place. They then become powered by our emotional reaction.

As an example say you have a desire to be more organized...yet you have identified your self as a procrastinator. You now see this aspect of yourself as an obstacle or challenge to you being organized. You think you must overcome your procrastination in order to be organized. Yet with each attempt you fall short and grow increasingly more frustrated with each attempt. 

The reason for all of this is cause you have set up in your mind that your procrastination is what is keeping you from being organized. You have identified the procrastination as the cause of you not becoming organized. You have created the obstacle of procrastination as what is standing in your way. When what is standing in your way is this thought process. It is the thought process that you have created that is creating this illusion that procrastination is the obstacle.

In all of this though there is an opportunity to experience growth.  The procrastination and the desire to be organized  really have nothing to do with each other than the fact that you have declared it so. So what you want to do is to focus on the desire it self and not the procrastination. You want to declare your self as organized and then more forward from there. You want to then look at ways that feel good to you that help you experience more organization. Focus on the organization and not the procrastination. This will help you easily shift  towards what you want without having to overcome anything.

Excerpts from the article Living in Denial

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 Of late it has come into our awareness that many us without realizing it are living in denial of who we really are.  We all do this in some way or another and how it shows up in your life is in how you perceive yourself, how you are thinking about yourself and how you are feeling about yourself. It can show up in big ways as well as small ways. 

We all have things about ourselves that we do not like. It can be something out our physical bodies, something about our personality or something about how we act in certain situations. It really does not matter how it is showing up, it is in recognizing what it is telling us that matters. It is also important to look at how we are handling this to better understand who we really are.

You are empowered to be anything you desire. When you use your empowerment to be the catalyst for the change you desire, you will bring about that change.  It starts with accepting where you are right now, seeing yourself as a empowered person and using that empowerment to change your thoughts, beliefs and how you are feeling to reach new heights of empowerment. 

 

Change Does Not Happen To You But Because Of You

Change is what must occur in order to manifest any desire. While there are times we feel change is being forced upon us, it is occurring in order for a desire to manifest, to become real. We often want something to manifest but are not always will to allow the necessary changes to occur in order to experience the manifestation. We tend to welcome the changes that are comfortable to us. We tend to resist those that require us to expand our comfort zone. Change occurs within us long before the results manifest.

Think about those times you really wanted something. Think about the changes that occurred first. Can you see yo changed something about you first before you ever manifested what you wanted? Change is always occurring but we often times do not think of it as change. Where we struggle is when the change is seen as unwanted. We then see it has happening to us, beyond our control.

When you are open to change in any form that you experience it in, it is easier to be more comfortable with it. You are then able to flow with life instead of resisting the flow of life. 

You are empowered to change anything, a thought, a belief, an emotion, your focus and even your perception. Energetically speaking that is what shifting is...creating change at the level of energy.

If you have a desire you wish to manifest and experience be open to the changes.  If you find  yourself resisting a change you think is unwanted or is being forced upon you, ask yourself what desire am I resisting? Where is the change taking me to?

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves.  ~Victor Frankl

Taking Charge of Your Life

Have you been experiencing that there are times when life just seems to get away from us? We seem to have many distractions that are pulling us in several different directions at once. We seem to be pressured to be perfect at everything we do, pressured to produce, to perform to the standards that others have set for us but we accept as our own. We have work pressures, family pressures, societal pressures and financial pressures. This has become our norm so much to the point that we do not even realize that we are pressured. It can get very overwhelming. We, without realizing it, just react to what is going on in our lives.

The good news is there is something we can do about this in order to take charge of our lives. Life does not have to be this way. We can change it. You can change it! You can change anything and take charge of your own life.

These are just a few gentle reminders of what you can do when you find yourself having an experience that seems to be pulling you in a direction that you do not want to go in.

1 Be responsible – take responsibility for your life. It is your life, own it!
2 Choose wisely – you can make different choices that you are currently making.
3 Define your desires - what it is that you want out of life?
4 Quit the Blame Game – it is very easy to blame others when things do not go our way.
5 Follow Your Heart – Listen to your inner voice and follow it, trust it.
6 Stay Focused – do not lose sight of what it is you desire
7 Be who you really are – Be the real you, not the you others think you should be
8 Do not let other control you – Others will try to control you, do not let them. Stay away from them if you have to.
9 Take time for yourself – make it a point to take time for yourself and do something that is pleasing to you.
10 Act not react – Do not just react to what you are experiencing, take a step back, process it and then decide how are you going to act, what action are you going to take.

The 10 Keys To Self Empowerment - Key 10

                                 Belief

We create our own life, our own reality based on our beliefs. Beliefs that reflect who we really are is the key to self empowerment. We all have many beliefs but when it comes to self empowerment belief in who we really are is the key to unlocking your own self empowerment. Who do you believe yourself to be? Are those beliefs based in fear? If so you are creating an illusion that you are not self empowered and will experience powerlessness. If your beliefs are based in joy and knowing then they are a reflection of who you really are, you are experiencing self empowerment. Who do you know yourself to be? How you answer that will indicate if you see yourself as a self empowered creator or not.

The 10 Keys To Self Empowerment - Key 9

                                                    Faith

Faith and Trust work hand in hand with each other. When you are using your trust you are also using your faith. You are empowered when those two are in alignment with each other. You are using them together in harmony. Faith is often used to mean a particular religious belief but that is not the faith we are speaking of here. The faith we are speaking of relates to hopefulness. Faith is related to confidence as well. When you are empowered you are confident. Faith is a stepping stone to knowing. Faith is the foundation of self empowerment. When you are feeling powerless, you may think you do not have faith but actually you are just not using the faith that you do have. Faith also grows and expands as does trust the more you use it. Faith is within you and can be expressed through you into your life.

The 10 Keys To Self Empowerment - Key 8

                                Trust

When you begin to trust yourself, trust your instincts and trust your feelings you are using this key to unlock your self empowerment. You trust in the fact that no matter what you are experiencing you created it for your own greater good. You also trust that even though you do not have all your answers, they will come in time. You do not always need to know how but you trust that the “how” will show itself to you. You trust in the process. Some may talk about trusting in a higher power, something outside of ourselves that is greater than we are. When you are using your self empowerment you trust that you and that higher power are in alignment, that you are one with that higher power and therefore it works through you. That higher power is not outside of you but within you. If you place trust in anything that you see as outside of you, you are creating an illusion that you are not empowered and something body or something is. To experience even more self empowerment you must use your trust.

ITSC Coaching Internet Radio Show Topics For April

ITSC Coaching can be hear every 

Friday on blogtalkradio at 4 PM EST

http://www.blogtalkradio.com/itsc 

Our show topics for April are:

April 1  - Being a take Charge Creator - you can take charge of your life

by creating  with intent.

April 8 - Do my Creations match my Desires- often 

what we create do not match what it is we want.

April 15 - Over Analyze You Paralyze - sometimes we over think the Law of 

Attraction and this leads to us not being able to create what we want

April 22 - Manifesting your Desires - We are always 

manifesting but are we manifesting based on creating from what we want. 

April 29 - Your Life Your Power Your Manifestations - We will be wrapping

up our discussions on the Law of Attraction in Depth by discussing

how to use your power to have the life you want.

On these shows we will be talking in depth on how to apply the law of attraction in your life.

All shows are recorded and can be heard on demand. 

The 10 Keys To Self Empowerment - Key 7

                         Awareness

The more awareness of self you have the more self empowered you are. Are you aware of your feelings, your emotions, your beliefs, your thoughts, your creations, your manifestations and who you really are? Your ability to be self aware is limitless. It is an ongoing process that is ever expanding. Are you aware to your own greatness? Are you aware of all the joy and happiness in your life? What are you aware of? This all works hand in hand with the other keys to self empowerment. We tend to think of them separately but they actually all work together. When you expand your self awareness you are able to shift your focus, perspective and perception. You allow yourself to feel, you are taking responsibility for your own life and self empowerment, you are involved at the level of self. All these factor into your self awareness. Many strive for heightened levels of self awareness but in the striving is what is blocking you from your experience of it. You do not achieve self awareness; it is something you already are.