OUR UNIQUE RELATIONSHIP WITH “SELF”

How many times have you felt all alone?   Be honest with yourself when you answer that question!  Most of us at one time or another have felt that very way, all alone!  At those moments in time we fail to realize what a great and unique relationship we truly have with ourselves.  We, in those moments, are as far from ourselves as we can possibly be, and we never realize it is only a perspective.  We can never separate the two aspects of our being, the physical from the non physical.  That is like trying to separate each individual ray of sunshine from the sun as the beams reach the earth.  Virtually impossible to do so, even though there are trillions upon trillions of rays that make up the sunshine as we know them.  We are the same, we can’t separate our beings, as it is that vary uniqueness that makes us who we are while on this physical plane.  It is that relationship that makes us so very special and unique.  This is why when we do feel all alone it is only a mere perspective that has us feeling that way.  We are never alone, never! 

Let’s explore that thought for just a moment.  Have you ever had a conversation with yourself?  Sure you have, we all do it, nearly on an hourly basis.  Whether you are just mulling over your thoughts, trying to make a decision or just having a simple day dream – you are conversing with yourself.  It is a real conversation as within that conversation you experience a wide array of emotions, you answer yourself and you have that unique ability to either make yourself feel better or feel worse – just as you do when you interact with another human being.  Think about it, you always have someone with you, every second of every minute, you have you!  Don’t think so, go to a mirror and look at yourself.  Look long, hard and deeply within that being you see staring back at you in the mirror.  Then say “hello”!  Start a conversation, no matter how silly you may feel in doing so, start that conversation.  Before long, you will begin to understand that your best friend within this physical plane is looking back at you!  The being that will never steer you in the wrong direction, the being that always without fail or doubt has your back, the being that knows you like no other being and yes the being that loves you beyond measure…….is the being that you are conversing with, is the being that is looking back at you, is the being that with every thought, every utterance (whether verbal or non verbal) is actually saying how much they love you and how much they want you to experience every desire that you have ever had or ever will have and further more will help you with all their might to get you to the point of manifesting and experiencing each of those desires!  Now how magnificent is that?!  How wonderful of a gift is that?!!!  That is truly how special and unique our relationship is with ourselves!  Discovering this perspective, that being “alone” is just that a “perspective” allows us to discover what life really is all about, why we decided to come forth into this physical reality in the first place and that when we decided to birth ourselves into this journey we know beyond any doubt that we would never be alone.  We would always have a great gift, we would always have ourselves, hence never being alone!

When you begin to realize this great gift we have in self, you begin to realize that magic, what we perceive to be magic anyways, that we posses within the creation process.  Imagine, if you will for one minute, this thought.  You realize a desire that you have, one that you truly want to manifest and experience.  Makes no difference what this desire is, only matters that it is heartfelt and you know it is!  You have it realized in your mind’s eye, you feel on every level of your being.  But this time you have the knowledge that you are not alone, you have that magnificent gift of “self” and the understanding of what “self” is truly all about!  With that understanding at hand, you now can begin to create in a whole new way, as now you can truly interact with your greatest gift, “yourself” and in a very creative and deliberate way.  You can now allow “self” to help guide you in the direction of the true manifestation and experience of that very heartfelt desire!  Who cares how long it may take, makes no difference as now you know beyond doubt that it is not just your physical self creating the desire, but your non physical self as well.  You begin to enjoy the journey just a little more as you now understand the sentiment, “a joy that is shared is a joy made double, while a sorrow that is shared is but half a trouble”!  You begin to know, you begin a deep seeded belief that you are never alone, that you always have you to count on for anything at anytime in anyplace!  How magnificent is that!

Begin to understand yourself, begin to deliberately have conversations with yourself and you will truly begin to live life from a new and most empowering perspective.  A perspective that will serve you in ways that you never thought possible as you will now have a guide that now only knows each and every desire you have but further knows how to assist you in not just manifesting these heartfelt desires but in the most deepest and meaningful way to experience them! 

“SELF” the most magnificent gift we have within this physical place, yet it is the one gift we so often overlook.  Just realize that this amazing best friend, this amazing best friend that truly wants joy, happiness and love with our lives is merely a thought away!  Imagine that, just a thought away!  How empowering is that, how beautiful is that, how magnificent is that?!!!!  Puts an amazing perspective on “SELF” now doesn’t it?!!!  Sure does!

To learn more, log onto www.blogtalkradion.com/ITSC Friday from 1PM to 2PM as Mary Anne and David dialog on this very topic!  Sit back and enjoy listening to the dialog or join in either in the chat room or by phoning into the show!  Any way you decide to experience the dialog, you will be glad you joined!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until then, begin to understand the vast uniqueness of “SELF”, begin to understand the magnificent gift we each have within “SELF” and you too will begin to live and experience a life of desire.  Until then, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and David W. Trippany

Life Coaches with ITSC, LLC.

The Uniqueness of Self

 Life coaches Mary Anne and David dialog on the unique relationship we all have with "self". We often do not take the time to listen to "self". David and Mary Anne will be giving you tips on how to develop this relationship so that you put "self" back into the equation of your life.
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Benefits of ITSC Coaching

Through our services you will have the opportunity to: 

v     Have a coaching program that is designed and tailored uniquely for you. 

v     Recognize and understand who you really are.

v     Identify your true heart felt desires.

v     Learn the tools needed to create manifest and experience those desires.

v     Become aware of your limits and blocks in thinking that stand in your way of experiencing your desires.

v     Expand your thinking and awareness.

v     Obtain a new perspective from which you can better embrace your belief system.

We at ITSC look forward to developing a program that is just for you, a program that is based in success rather than failure. Let ITSC be the personal coach that encompasses all of you, not just part of you. 

You can begin the life you desire today, without having to look back. It doesn’t matter if it is simple as wanting to feel better or as large as wanting to start your own business. It doesn’t matter if it is wanting to have better personal relationships or become a successful leader with the corporate world. We at ITSC can offer you a new starting point. It is up to you and only you to create, manifest and experience the life that you desire.

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FINDING THE SECRET: THE UNIQUENESS OF SELF

How good is your relationship with you?  Now that is a good question if ever we have heard one!  When most people are asked that question they begin their answer with a very puzzled look and then a feeble attempted answer where they say something along the lines of just fine.  But really their answer began and ended with the puzzled look, as they truly had no idea what they were being asked.  Not all their fault as we are conditioned to not think in terms of ourselves.  Society has conditioned us to take "self" out of our thought process.  Rather thinking in terms of everyone else as if you think of "self" you are being selfish, thoughtless and usually mean spirited.  But the opposite is the real truth.  When you think and "FEEL" in terms of self, you are being and bringing forth the absolute best "YOU" into this physical reality, therefore creating a world that shares within your best possible light!  In other words, when you celebrate the splendor of your greatness and bring forth that greatness you are actually assisting others in doing the very same, so everyone is bringing forth their unique vibration from that of source, their unique vibration from that of God, which ever you prefer, both mean the same thing!

While it is true we are all one within this physical plane, we all do hold a uniqueness that is powerfully special.  Just as the light beams from the sun all seem to blend together, it is actually millions upon millions of individual light beams that form the one great magnificent beam that reaches us here on this earth.  No single beam is any less important than any other single beam.  Each on its own is powerful beyond imagination.  Together they form one to share in even more empowerment.  We are much the same here within this physical plane.  Alone we are powerful and magnificent creators and together we are powerful and magnificent co-creators.  This is why it is so vitally important that we each bring forth our own self empowered self as in doing so we are actually assisting those around us in doing the same.  Think about this for one minute.  Have you ever been in a situation, and we are sure you have been, where someone is holding part of themselves back?  You have felt they were holding some piece of themselves back?   You felt the energy being held back.   The second you felt that energy shift, what did you do?  You too began to hold back yourself as you felt some form of distrust, you felt your own distraught and began pulling yourself back from the situation.  So by that one individual not bringing forth all of the real them, all of the real them, you too followed suit by retreating part of the real you.  You held back part of the real you.  In doing so, you diminished "self" and therefore lessened the experience of pure positive energy to be had and felt by all.  You assisted in lessening the wonderful experience we have all come here to experience, to live and to enjoy.  While that may sound very dramatic, in some sense is it just that dramatic.  If you came forth to experienced life from the absolute perspective to "self", and "self" being a magnificent creator being, why then would you want to be any less than that magnificent creator being?  Why would you want to lessen the experience you said you wanted to come forth and experience?  What purpose would that serve?  Who would that serve?  Yourself?  Others?  We say no one at all!  When you experience less than what you came forth to experience then you lessen yourself.  When you lessen yourself you truly defeat the purpose of creating, manifesting and experiencing within this physical plane.  You do this not just to yourself but to those around you as well.  Again, we ask why would you want to do that?  The only answer we can come up with is F>E>A>R!  "F"alse> "E"vidence> "A"ppearing> "R"eal!  Now there is a novel thought!  Think about that for a moment.  Are you living within the realm of FEAR?  If you are holding yourself back at all, we say you need to think about the FEAR Aspect for a moment, as perhaps you are letting FEAR run your life!

Now that we have explored the importance of "SELF", let's explore for a moment the uniqueness of self.  Source Energy/God/Allah/Jehovah/Spirit……however you like to define it, has many different aspects that create the whole of the being/entity you are describing.  With the many different aspects comes the vast ways of experiencing life in physical form.  This is where the uniqueness of self comes into play.  All writings teach us that each of us has been created in the image and likeness of a creator, therefore each of us shall have the opportunity to experience life from that aspect as well, creating for each of us a unique opportunity within this physical plane.  We all come forth to experience desire, but along the way we do from time to time and in various levels do experience contrast, but only to get us back focused on that which we truly desire.  So it stands to reason we all come forth to experience desire!  We know, contrast is merely a desire indicator!  With that being said, we just learned the true vast uniqueness each of us hold, because each of us has come forth to stand up within this physical plane and not just behold our own uniqueness but to dwell within the fact that we are unique, we are special and we have bravely come forth to fully experience and embrace the power given to us by that of Source/God/Allah/Jehovah/Spirit.  To bask in its wonderment, its joy, its love!  Now how special, how wonderful and how powerful is that?!!!

When you look at it from that standpoint you begin to realize just how powerful and wonderful and most importantly how unique you truly are to this physical place and just how enriching you are to the many.  While you are one aspect of uniqueness of the greater collection, your aspect is no less important than that of any other aspect.  Remove yourself, just as a piece of a 10,000 piece puzzle removes itself and what does everyone focus on……..that one missing piece.  Interesting perspective, now isn't it?!!!!  Develop your relationship with your "SELF", begin to understand how wonderful and powerful you are…..remember you are that one piece that was remove from the 10,000 piece puzzle.  Celebrate that aspect of you, of "SELF" and you will truly be celebrating the uniqueness of your "SELF"!

To learn more, log onto to www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC Friday from 1PM to 2PM eastern when Mary Anne and David dialog on "The Uniqueness of Self".  Join in the dialog or just sit back and enjoy the dialog. 

To learn even more, visit Mary Anne and David at www.ITSCcoaching.com.

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and David W. Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

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 On this episode Mary Anne and David dialog on the communication process within ourselves and the importance of listening to our inner voice and what it is telling us.

They also talk about our ability to "feel" what out gut instincts is telling us.

FEELINGS…THE LANGUAGE OF SELF

By now we all understand that the Law of Attraction is solely based on feelings, how we feel is how the Law of Attraction responds.  Remember, like attracts like!  Doesn’t so much matter what you think but rather how you feel.  That is the true key to The Secret/Law of Attraction.

So let’s explore the Language of Self.  How is it that you respond to any given situation?  Do you respond at the level of instinct/gut feeling or do you respond at the level of your logical self – your head?  The answer to those questions is vitally important when you are being a sound and solid creator of your journey.  If you choose the later, your head, you most likely are dismissing the Language of Self for that of your logical self.  In doing so, you are actually setting yourself up for creating contrast, that which you typically are not wanting to create.  Your logical self will always assist you in ignoring your Language of Self for what most sincerely seems like a better approach to handling the situation you are dealing with at that moment.  However, all the while you gut feeling, your instincts are directing you to respond in an entirely different manner.  A manner which may feel right, but may not make sense at the moment.  Society has conditioned each of us to respond logically.  Society has systematically over time removed “self” from the equation and replaced “self” with a process that puts the many over the individual.  In doing so, “self” has been diminished to the point that if you begin to live life from the standpoint of “self” you are and an individual that is totally self absorbed and down right mean.  You are ignoring your fellow man.  What is not realized in this process, this way of thinking is that when you approach life from the “self” standpoint, then you truly are working for the benefit of all.  We always fail to realize that we can only create for our ourselves, we can only create our own journey.  We can’t create for anyone else….not our mothers, not our fathers, not our children, no one but ourselves.  When that single aspect is taken out of the equation, which is always the case when the logical mind enters into the process, we not only deny ourselves the journey we desire but further deny those we are  wanting to assist on their own paths.  We have completely dismissed that aspect and have gone in a direction that is not representative of who we truly are as beings here on this physical plane.  You see the Language of Self offers us the road map to creating that which we truly desire, that which we truly want to manifest, that which we truly want to experience.  When you fail to follow that map, you fail to allow the real you come into existence, destined to only experience contrast which will only make you focus on the true heartfelt desire that, you guessed it, the Language of Self was only trying to get you to realize and act upon in the first place.  This is why we see contrast as a positive aspect rather than negative, as it is merely a desire indicator.

So we ask the question again, how have  you been responding to the situations within your own life?  Have you acted from intuition or have you acted from the guy?  Not sure.  Look at the results you gained from any situation?  We there results that were pleasing to you or were they more displeasing to you?  Answer that honestly and you will begin to see your journey on a much clearer note, a note that will only aide you getting to know the real you!

That is another point that needs to be made when talking about this topic.  The Real You!  Do you realize that the Language of Self is a solid aspect of the real you?  It is the communicative aspect that connects fully the physical and non physical you!  Think about that for a minute.  The fiber that has complete connection between all aspects of you as a whole complete being is your Language of Self.  Knowing this, why would you complete discount or worse yet, completely disregard that connective aspect of your whole complete self?  Conditioning, perhaps.  More often than not, it is solely out of fear!  We feel this passage created by Marianne Williamson so eloquently says it best.  “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”  Follow that advice and you will truly begin to live within the realm of your own Language of Self.  

 

Remember, your Language of Self is your salvation!  Your Language of Self is the aspect of you that holds all your answers, the way to all your desires, the way to the life you truly want to manifest and experience.  Let your own personal Language of Self serve as your guide for the situations that are presented to you while on this most fascinating journey and you too will begin to live that life you desires, that life just mere moments ago were dreaming about, the life that was meant for you to live while here.

 

So the next time you begin to shut down how you feel, STOP!  Take note of what you are doing, take note of what you are doing to others!  Forget about societal conditioning for one second, and bring yourself back into this wonderful journey and begin to live it from the standpoint of the real you!  Bring the real you into this physical reality and put the logical self to rest and let the real self begin to make the decisions, decisions that will truly make the impact that you were wanting to make when you came here to this physical reality!  Be and create from the real you, from your very own Language of Self.

 

To learn more and to join in the dialog, tune in to www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC this Friday noon to 1PM eastern time.  We look forward to you joining us so that you too can create, manifest and experience that which you truly desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and David W. Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches / ITSC Dialogers

 

 

HOW DO I FIND MY DESIRES

On the surface, the title of this blog may seem very simplistic, even a bit elementary.  However, it is nothing of the sort!  Stop and think for just one moment about your own desires.  What is it that you truly desire?  What is it that you truly want to create and experience?  Are you thinking?  I’m sure you are, but that is most likely because you were asked that specific question.  You see, unless  specifically asked you probably do not take the time to even reflect on what it is that you desire let alone even know how to truly find that which you desire!

Most individuals never take the time to really explore what their true heartfelt desires are let alone finding them so they can create them!  We will answer the question, what is a true heartfelt desire?  It is simply a desire that is a true and accurate reflection of who you are as an individual.  In other words, the creation  and experience of a true heartfelt desire is a true and accurate portrayal of the internal you, the real you.  And when you experience this type of desire, you experience a feeling of completeness and internal joy that can only be felt when the desire is true and heartfelt. When you create something that is not a true and heartfelt desire you do not have that feeling of completeness, you may perhaps feel a void internally that you were hoping the creation would fill, but did not.  You may feel that disappointing feeling, empty feeling, perhaps even hopelessness.  Those feelings are all due to you not creating a heartfelt desire.  Nearly all of those created desires are created from the ego, and this is done by creating from the external to try and fill a void internally.  This type of creating  will never fill the void you feel.  You fill that void by first and foremost getting to know the real you.  While doing that you begin to chip away at that empty hollow feeling.  You are creating a relationship between the physical and non physical being that you are and in doing so you are becoming “united in acceptance” as you no longer see yourself as two separate beings, physical and non physical, but rather see and feel yourself as one whole complete being that has two aspects but they operate as one.  It is like your TV, it has a picture and it has sound, while yes they can operate separately, they are at their best when they work together,  picture and sound.  When one or the other is out, how frustrated do you get?  Well it is the same when you live your life from the standpoint that you are two separate beings and try to live life from that aspect.  You create confusion, frustration and undoubtedly will create contrast to get you to focus on being “united in acceptance”.  When you begin your process here, you are beginning the process of finding your desires, your true heartfelt desires!  All desires that are true and heartfelt will all have the same aspects, they will have a good feeling associated with them, they will be a true reflection of who you really are as a being “united in acceptance” and they will offer you internal joy, happiness and peace that will not come from a desire created from your ego mind.  Stop and take a quick minute to reflect on your journey thus far, and think about the desires that you created that were truly fulfilling and those that were less than pleasing to you.  You will be able to feel the difference and in feeling the difference you will begin to understand how and where you find your desires, the desires that sincerely are a reflection of the real you, desires that you came forth to create, manifest and experience on your journey.  The desires that fulfill rather than deplete your happiness.  There is a difference.  When creating from the ego rather than the real self, you will notice the amount of contrast is greater and increases in severity as the so called desire unfolds.  However, when creating true heartfelt desires, the opposite is true.  While there may be some contrast, it is usually on the level of preference (not that severe) and the process has a flow to it that is as pleasing as the manifestation and experience of that very desire!  You will feel the difference, you will experience the difference!

Get to know the real you, begin to love the real you and bring forth the real you into this physical reality, all the while living life from the standpoint of being “united in acceptance” and you will begin that fun process of not just finding your desires, your true heartfelt desires, but you will most certainly begin to create, manifest and experience those very desires!  Life your life as you intended to live it prior to coming into this physical reality, live your life deliberately, live your life within the concept of being “united in acceptance” and you will never have to look and search too far for your desires, your true heartfelt desires as they will always be known to you.  You will just have to feel your way to them and you will every time, no exceptions!

To learn more about “How To Find Your Desires” be sure to tune into the ITSC Blog Talk Radio show this Friday, 4PM eastern time at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC as Mary Anne and David dialog on this very topic!  Join them and become a the true creative being that you came forth to be within this physical plane!  Live life the way you intended to live it, a life that will be a true reflection of who you really are, a being that is “united in acceptance”!

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and David Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

 

CREATING MY REALITY

"First comes thought; then organization of that thought, into ideas and plans; then transformation of those plans into reality. The beginning, as you will observe, is in your imagination." Napoleon Hill

 

That is a very interesting process to say the least!  Have you ever thought about what your reality is?  Have you ever taken the time to realize that you do create your own reality?  Have you even considered that you are a magnificent creator?  We can go on and on with the “have you” observations, but we really need to concentrate on one simple fact for a moment, that we truly are the creators of our own reality.

Stop and think for one moment that through your thought process and belief system, you are actually creating on a daily basis the reality that you are experiencing.  Especially so, if you are experiencing that which you really are not wanting to experience.  We call that type of experience “contrast”.  We have come to know “contrast as merely a desire indicator”.  In other words, when you experience that which you do not like, the Law of Attraction is merely bringing into your reality the opportunity for you to refocus on that which you truly do desire.  This is why we say that there really is no negative experiences to be experienced, as the negative situations are merely helping you refocus and determine what it is you do desire, what desire you are trying to create but for whatever reason lost your focus.  We seem to have come to a creative process where we have mastered creating situations that are full of contrast and don really care to be experiencing.  So if we have come to master that aspect of creating and filling our reality with that which we really don’t care to experience, then just how come we have not mastered creating our true heartfelt desires?  That is a great question!  There are a multitude of answers.  However, the one we like the most as it resonates the best with us is because we have been conditioned to create this way!  We have been taught to create this way!  As told in “The Secret”, as individuals came to understand The Law Of Attraction, the wanted to keep it to themselves, a small group with misguided thoughts and motives.  They did not want to share this great gift that is there for all to not only enjoy but live their life by each and every day they are within the wonderful physical plane.  Why you ask?  That answer is quite simple, “FEAR”.  Fear is a powerful motivator of mankind.  Look around you each day and see how many times you are bombarded with some fear based thought to get you to think, respond and live your life a certain way.  It is all around us, listen to the news, read the newspaper or simply turn on your TV and you will see that fear is thrown in our face hour by hour!  Basically, those that knew of this powerful Law of Attraction wanted o keep and hold it for themselves, because if everyone knew of this magnificent power, then perhaps there will not be enough to go around or perhaps the power itself would not be so great!  Remember, information itself is held as a great power source within our society!  That is evidenced each and every day, just look around and listen!  Now that we realize that fear plays a large role in our ability to be “Contrast Creators”, perhaps we can see fear for what it really is: False Evidence Appearing Real, and take the steps to become deliberate creators and create our desires to experience, manifest our desires to experience, live our life the way we intended to live it!

Sounds easy because it is easy!  Remember you are a creator being.  Every religion, every dogma, every spiritual based thought process tells us that we are creator beings.  Knowing that knowledge should lend you a hand in becoming the magnificent creator you are within this physical plane!  Begin to feel your own self power and as you do you will feel it empower you making you realize that you are a self empowered creator, one that can and will create the reality that you not only desire but yes deserve!  That is huge!  We do deserve to experience that which we desire.  Every being walking on this planet deserves to experience their heartfelt desire and we all need to develop that perspective!  Once we do this, we can then begin to develop a true and loving relationship with ourselves and then and only then can we begin to dive into our pool of desires and not just know the vastness of that pool but can now begin to feel that pool and understand through feeling that which we want to create, manifest and experience!  We each have wonderful desire pools and each of us deserve to create from that pool rather then  create the contrast to help us only to realize that we need to focus on that pool!  Become a self empowered individual and you too will become a self empowered creator that can and will become a true creator of your true reality, a reality that reflects who you truly are as an individual within this physical plane!

Begin to feel your own empowerment and you too will begin to feel yourself create the reality you both desire and deserve!  You’ve mastered creating contrast, now give creating desire a try, you will be so glad you did!

To learn more about creating your reality, be sure to tune into ITSC’s show on Blog Talk Radio by visiting www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC.  Mary Anne and Dave will be dialoging on this topic and invite you to listen and join in the dialog!  4pm eastern each Friday!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until then, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

 

WHAT REALLY MATTERS

THE SECRET IN DEPTH

 

We have come to know that The Secret is based on The Law Of Attraction, which simply dictates “Like Attracts Like”.  Further we have come to learn that The Secret /The Law Of Attraction are solely based on “how we feel”.  In other words, how we feel at any given time on any given subject is a good indication of what we are in the process of creating and bringing into our own personal reality.  With all that being said, what really does matter?!!!

Let’s examine this question for a moment, shall we.  When we are in the creation process, really every second of every day, we are trying to bring into our path a certain feeling, usually a good feeling.  Whatever it is we are trying to create, it is a feeling we are seeking.  Whether it is an object – some device we feel will make our life better or more enjoyable, an item – a report we are working on for work, hoping to hear the praises of our boss, or simply more freedom within our hectic life so that we can have more time to enjoy our journey.  Each of those examples has attached to them certain feelings.  The attached feelings are truly what we are seeking, not necessarily the items themselves.  Certainly the items themselves being successfully completed are a plus, but it is the underlying feeling that we really are trying to achieve and manifest.  When we fall short of our desires is when the sought after feeling is lost……or is it.  This is where your choice in perspectives is extremely important!  Using the examples above, the device, let’s say it was suppose to be the top of the line i-pod, which didn’t manifest just as you desired, but did manage to manifest an mp3 player.  A friend gave you an old one they were no longer using.  It worked and it did achieve the underlying desire to provide music when you were working out.  However, because you did not manifest the ipod, you now feel cheated by The Law of Attraction.  “Perspective Shift Time”!!!  While you did not manifest exactly what your intended desire was, you were able to satisfy the overall desire.  Therefore, when you change your perspective, your desire was secured.  Next the business report.  You completed it and gave it to your boss.  Your desire was to receive an abundance of praises from your boss, however, you merely received a simple “thank you”.  This left you feeling less than adequate for the services you rendered to your boss.  “Perspective Shift Time”!!!  Sure you worked your heart out on the business report and you know you gave 110% while working on the business report and you know it was a fantastic report that will have a positive impact on the company and bring success beyond what your company is currently seeing.  We tend to all too quickly excuse the self praise we give ourselves at times, thinking that it means little to nothing as it didn’t come from someone else.  But the self praise did make us feel fantastic!  Therefore, when you change your perspective, your desire was secured – you did get praised, just not from your boss.  But who is to say that after your boss presents the report to the company, because you did adopt that personal triumph perspective, that in the future you won’t receive the praise you originally were seeking.  Had you not adopted that new perspective who knows what The Law of Attraction would have brought into your reality!!!  Remember, like attracts like!!!  Lastly let’s look at the desire for more freedom within your life.  Perhaps all that manifested was an extra hour for your lunch break.  You feel short changed as you were hoping the lottery was going to come in for you and all you would have was freedom.  “Perspective Shift Time”!!!  We all would like to have the freedom a lottery win may bring, but being grateful and appreciative of the little things that cross our path is just as important.  Having the perspective that an extra hour at lunch certainly did improve your mood for the day, lending you the opportunity to not just rest but reflect as well at how much you appreciate little times where you can have for yourself to just rest, be still and truly appreciate all that you have and all that you know you can create!  Slight perspective shifts in each scenario is all it took to observe what really mattered within each situation.  Allowing the real you to emerge and experience what really mattered, what was really important…….feeling good with each desire’s outcome.  Keeping open to all the rich possibilities and most importantly seeing the value within each outcome and enjoying your response to the fullest.  That is what really matters, what we do with what we create, knowing that if it wasn’t a perfect match, when you change your perspective, it was indeed a match – we just had not afforded ourselves the perspective to fully appreciate what we had created!

So what really matters?  A great question if ever we have heard one!  Join Mary Anne and Dave as they dialog on this very intriguing topic, “What Really Matters”.  Visit www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC Friday May 27th, at 4pm (est) and listen in as they tackle this very question!  

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy & Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

www.ITSCcoaching.com

 

Creating With Intent

 There is a common misunderstanding as to what Creating with Intent really means. Creating with intent is not the same as creating an intention to be/do/have something. When you use an intention statement, in the form of a positive affirmation, to create an intention you will often see it formed like this.... "I intend to experience prosperity and abundance in my life" or you might see "I intend that my business is flourishing and income is flowing freely". Another way it is common to use these statements is to say...."It is my intention to let go of fear with ease and grace". When you use these types of statements you are creating an intention. This puts what it is you desire to manifest into the future. Energetically, it puts your manifestation into some future point of time. These types of statements are not definitive statements. Why would you intend to manifest something? Why not just manifest it?

Creating with intent however is creating with focus, attention as in the word intensity. It is creating with intensity, the intensity of your focus, attention....your energy.  This brings your energy into the present moment. The Law of Attraction responds to your energy, what you are feeling. The stronger the intensity of your desire, the larger the manifestation of that desire.

When you create with intent, you have a vision, you can feel that vision. You focus your energy, your thoughts on how that vision feels. When you hold onto this you can actually feel the energy grow and expand.

All things are created energetically long before they ever manifest.If you want to manifest something do not intend to do so but do so with intent, with the intensity of your energy and let that energy grow and expand.  

LOOKING BEYOND LOGIC

 “Logic is a systematic method of coming to the wrong conclusion with confidence”.  Now there is a real thought provoking statement if we have ever heard one.  While it is thought provoking it is most certainly one of the most true statements we have heard as well.  To properly create our journeys however, we must look beyond logic to be as successful as we would like to be.

Societal conditioning plays a large role when it comes to creating through logic.  It happens each and every day.  Read the newspaper, listen to the radio or simply just turn on your television and you will be conditioned by society without ever realizing it is taking place.  It happens through advertising as well as happening through the news being presented to you via any of the mentioned vehicles.  You are offered perspectives on each of those subjects, a perspective which is viewed as acceptable societal perspectives.  Most of us adopt the perspective that is offered as it is easy to do so.  I heard it on the radio, therefore it must be true.  I saw it on the television, therefore it must be true.  I read it in the newspaper, therefore it must be true.  Each of us falls victim to it as we all have been conditioned at some point in our early life that if information is put across to us via the media in whatever form there has to be some truth to it.  Otherwise it is slanderous and the provider of the information will suffer ugly consequences for putting forth lies.  This is only true in the perfect world as we know behind all information presented to us, there are only a few truths.  One of which is societal conditioning, as the powers that be want us to think a certain way for whatever reasoning they have at that moment.  Another is for pure profit.  How many times have you seen something work simply fantastic on TV only to go out and buy the item to suffer disappointment, not mention being feeling as though you wasted your money.  You see, logic plays directly into these scenarios.   

 As it is our logical mind that is telling us that it must be true otherwise the provider of the information just wouldn’t be saying it!  Go back to the beginning of this paragraph and re-read it to fully understand the concept we are talking about here.  Further, think back to when the information was first presented to you via any of the formats discussed.  Really think back to that exact time.  Now that you have that time fully resurrected within your memory bank, now think back to what your “gut” was telling you then.  Be honest!  We are sure you will remember feeling something such as this: “that information just isn’t feeling as those it is really accurate”, “my gut is telling me that the product being offered will not give me the results that are being shown”, “yea right, that course will not make me a millionaire over night”.  But we allow our logical mind to override our gut most of the time.  Why you ask, mostly because we view the information that we are hearing or seeing as a way to make our life easier in some form or fashion, therefore it must be truthful.  All the while our “gut” is telling us otherwise.  

 We have been taught to listen to our logical mind rather than our “gut instincts” as we are taught to live life from the standpoint that we are not individuals.  Living life from the “individual” standpoint makes us greedy, unkind and worse yet very uncaring towards our fellow man.  Think about this for a moment, let your “gut” do your thinking and not your logical mind!  What is your “gut” telling you now?  What is your “gut” allowing you to feel?  Perhaps it is now time to begin to feel your own power, to self-empower yourself within your journey to begin to live the life you came forth to experience, and experience in the manner in which you want to experience it and not how someone else tells you that you should be experiencing it.  Remember, only you can create your journey, no one else can do it for you, only you! 

With that in mind, give some real thought to the opening statement” “Logic is a systematic method of coming to the wrong conclusion with confidence”.  Feel different now doesn’t it?!  Interesting when you begin living life through a self empowered perspective, now isn’t it?!!!

Bring your new self empowered perspective with you as you learn more about “Looking Beyond Logic” Friday on Blog Talk Radio when Mary Anne and Dave dialog on this very topic!  Go to www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC and listen in or join in the dialog.  Friday, May 20, 2011 from 4pm to 5pm est.  Build upon your newly form perspective, bringing forth the real you and begin to create and manifest that which you truly desire!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until then, enjoy your new found self empowering new perspective and truly begin to experience all that you desire!  Remember, it is only you that can create for you, no one else, only you!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

 

Uncovering The Real Secret

 

By now everyone has heard of “The Secret” and most know it as this: just think of something that you want, put your focus on “that” and viola “that” very item will at some point within the near future will miraculously appear into your reality!  That is what some folks actually get out of watching the movie “The Secret”.  Much to their dismay, whatever “that” was that they were seeking doesn’t appear into their reality and they are left fretting and telling everyone that “The Secret” is a load of hogwash and doesn’t work.  It didn’t work for them and couldn’t possibly work for anyone else as they paid attention to the movie and followed the instructions exactly as they were laid out!  Anyone that says it works is either lying or were born rich!  This is what we call the wonderful misconception with regards to “The Secret”.

When one truly uncovers the real information with regards to “The Secret” they begin to understand that it really has nothing to do with what you merely think about during the hours of your day you are awake!  It goes far beyond that concept, but truly is just that easy!  We think that is the hard part that makes understanding “The Secret” so difficult for so many individuals.  It really is that easy. 

First we must realize that we are all creator beings.  You have to understand that basic information before you can search and learn any farther.  You are within the physical plane to create the journey you are on.   However you come to understand this concept (with God’s help, Allah’s help, any form of Spiritual thought process you may subscribe to) you can then dive further into understanding this wonderful “Law of Attraction”.  As most realize, by this point in time, “The Secret IS The Law of Attraction”.  We mention that here, just in case you didn’t know that already.   Further, most do know, but not all, that “The Law of Attraction” simple dictates that “Like IS Attracted To Like”.  Now that we have those two details out of the way, let us continue to reveal “The Real Secret Behind The Secret”.

Just merely “thinking” something into your existence will not bring whatever it is you are trying to manifest into existence.  We know most of you are by now saying, “well why not!”.  Good question that we will answer for you right now.  Because “The Secret or rather The Law of Attraction” does not respond to your thoughts!  It fully responds to “How You Feel”.  That is the realness behind “The Law of Attraction”.  You see, it doesn’t matter what you think.  How many times have you tried to “think” yourself into a better mood, either through mere thoughts or by saying a positive affirmation over and over and over.  And to no end, your mood really doesn’t get any better.  That is because each time you say that thought to yourself, nothing really improves and you tell yourself that this stuff doesn’t work , which makes you feel even worse!  But that is when you should have your “A-HA Moment” as there is your proof that it is working.  “The Law of Attraction” is absolutely working as it is responding to how you feel, which is miserable!  Remember, “like attracts like”. That is “The Real Secret”, “The Law of Attraction” responds to “HOW YOU FEEL – NOT WHAT YOU THINK”!  What an amazing piece of information!  Now that you are beginning to understand the reality behind “The Law of Attraction” what do you do with this new information to make your journey a reflection of your desires.  Yet another good question!  What we generally help people do is recognize when they have to shift their perspective on something.  As it is usually a wrong perspective on something that really is making you feel lousy.  By addressing that issue, your perspective, you can now begin to make yourself feel better, or as we like to say begin to raise your vibrations into the higher end of the spectrum.  Ask us for our “Determine Your Vibrational Range Sheet” to really help you with this aspect. 

So there you have it, “The Secret Behind The Secret”!  Your feelings are your “Operating System” or as we like to refer to them, “The Language of Self”.  It really is your communications system between your “physical Self” (what you see in the mirror) and your “Non-Physical Self” (the aspect you feel of yourself).  Your feelings are your powerful tools to create with “The Law of Attraction”.  Your feelings are your guidance points to create the life that you desire!  Your feelings are your creative tools when it comes to “The Law of Attraction”.  Begin to pay attention to your feelings, listen to your gut and did we mention, “PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR FEELINGS” and you will begin to live the life you desire rather than live the life you dread!  Take a quick minute and think about all this, what do you have to lose…….except perhaps a life that you really aren’t too fond of at this point!

To learn more about “The Real Secret” join us on Friday for our Blog Talk Radio Show, where we will dialog in depth about this very topic!  Join us at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC    You can just listen in or join the show either through our chat room or by phoning into the show!  Begin to deliberately create the life you are seeking, begin to experience your desires rather than just wishing you were!  Come and learn about “The Law of Attraction”, so you too can be the one that everyone just looks at and wishes they were you!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches

Are your Beliefs Limiting?

Have you thought about what it is that you believe? Beliefs are the foundation of where we create our lives from. A belief is a chronic and persistent thought that we have held onto over the course of time. We have thought it so many times that it has become a belief. 

A belief can be and often are limiting. This means that if you are not willing to shift, expand or change a belief you are limiting yourself to the possibilities that life can have for you. What you believe yourself to be is what you will be and what you are. This belief effects your perception and perspective on who you say you are. 

If you believe yourself to be something other than who you really are, then that belief is limiting you in your ability to not only be who you are but to experience yourself as a whole and complete being. 

Do you believe that you are not good enough, smart enough, pretty enough? That there is not enough "stuff" to go around? That there is not enough "time", not enough "food", not enough of______ you fill in the blank. These are all limiting beliefs that stem from a core belief that there is something "lacking". There is something "lacking" in you, your life and in the world as a whole.

If when you pay your bills you think or are worried, concerned that you will not or do not have enough money to do so, then this is an indicator that you have a belief that there is only so much money to go around and you do not have enough. This is a limiting belief that is keeping you from being able to have more of what you want.How can you possibly manifest more money when you believe that you do not have enough in the first place...it can't happen.

Limiting beliefs will block you so to speak from manifesting a desire. How can you possibly loose weight when you believe yourself to be fat, see yourself as fat and feel fat. It can't happen.


Here is a little exercise you can do to help you identify your limiting beliefs.
1. Write down a heartfelt desire you have that has not manifested yet.
2. Write down your thoughts in relation to this desire.
3. Write down how those thoughts make you feel
4. From what you wrote in 1-3 what does that tell you that you are believing about the desire. 

You can do this for any desire. In our next post we will talk about how to shift and expand ones beliefs... but until then you can work on exploring your beliefs and identify those that you feel are limiting you from being who you really are and having your desires manifest.    

Mary Anne Cipressy
David Trippany
ITSC Coaching
www.itsccoaching.com

BEING A TAKE CHARGE CREATOR

We all have the ability to create the life that we seek. However, most of us for whatever reason, fail to realize this one simple aspect of our existence: that we are the creator of our own journey. As we know, the Law of Attraction dictates that “Like Is Attracted To Like”. And we all know that the “Law Of Attraction” responds to how we are feeling at any given moment in time. With these two facts being stated, one should begin to realize the amazing power they have with regards to creating their own journey.


It truly is an amazing power when you stop to think about it for a quick minute. Imagine if you will, your life as you absolutely want it to be. Have fun with that imagination. Think and feel every aspect as you truly want them to be each day of your life. Don’t be shy about it, go for broke with this exercise. But while you are doing this keep this one simple rule in place. Make sure that everything you imagine for your life is a “true heartfelt desire”. In other words, make sure that your imagination is as real as possible. Don’t just think that you want money, think of what you want to do with that money, as that is where you really need to place your focus. Now that you have this fantastic visualization going, you really are beginning to feel that your imagination is real and you wonder if you haven’t crossed into the twilight zone as it does feel so real, you then need to do only one thing……..realize that you created it! True, it is only in your mind’s eye, however, you need to know that it is as real as if you were truly living that dream. Sure, at this point in time, you may not be living that dream. But you have set into motion a very powerful aspect of your journey. Your creative aspect! Let us remind you, it is not what you are seeing in your mind’s eye, it is what you are feeling throughout your entire being. That is the aspect that you truly need to focus on. Remember, the “Law of Attraction” responds to how you feel, not what you think or do! So if you are feeling this magnificent imagined life within your mind’s eye, then could you not say that you have just begun to exercise you powerful creative aspect, took charge of your creative abilities, set into motion that desire to live the life you truly want? The answer to all the foregoing questions is “yes”!

While this is a very basic example of what we are talking about when we say “Be A Take Charge Creator”, is does illustrate the point fairly accurately. Now we know some of you out there are thinking that it just can’t be that easy, but rest assured it is. The true secret is understanding that it is all about how you feel and not what you think. Think of this one item for a moment. You keep thinking to yourself that you are a happy go lucky individual, nothing bothers you and that you live a stress free life. However, you feel miserable, lately everything tugs at a nerve and you are living under levels of stress that you are sure are going to do you in very soon! What do you feel the “Law of Attraction” will respond to, what you are thinking or what you are feeling? Most will say what you think. Which the very next statement they will have is “this Law of Attraction stuff doesn’t work!” when all the while it is working brilliantly. Remember, the “Law of Attraction” responds to how we feel!! So within the above analogy, while you are thinking everything is fine – you are feeling absolutely miserable! You see, you are a truly magnificent and powerful creator, you just were never taught, really taught, how your power truly works.

Become a “Take Charge Creator” and truly begin to create the life you desire. Start today! You deserve to live the best life possible! The only one stopping you, is you! It is important to know that only you can create the life you desire. The reason being is because only you know what your heartfelt desires truly are within the life you are living! When you realize that and realize just how powerful your creative abilities are within this physical plane, then you too will become that “Take Charge Creator” you always wanted to become, but just weren’t sure how to go about it.

Listen in the our Blog Talk Radio show this Friday and learn more about this fascinating topic, “BEING A TAKE CHARGE CREATOR”! Mary Anne and Dave will be dialoging on this very topic, helping you gather all the tools you require to become the intentional creator of your journey. Visit us at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC Fridays at 4pm eastern and begin to take charge of your journey and “Become A Take Charge Creator”!

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!



Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches