Monday, October 25, 2010

The Powerful You "The Language of Self"

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany
Co-Founders, ITSC
Have you ever wondered why your emotions are so powerful?  Have you ever taken the time to examine your emotions?  Have you ever tried to figure out what your emotions were specifically trying to tell you...beyond just happy or sad?  Have you.........yes so many questions but very few answers, or so you may think!
Lets take a look at our emotions and the power behind each and every feeling you have throughout your day.  First of all, we want to appropriately identify your emotions.  We refer to them as the "Language of Self".  The reason being is because your emotions are your communication system between your physical self (the aspect you see in the mirror) and your non-physical self (the part you feel all the time).  Before we go any farther, it is important for all to realize that yes we have two aspects to ourselves but we need to focus on the fact that we are one whole and complete being.  When we see ourselves as having two separate aspects, this is when we begin to encounter issues of contrast.  For this article, we want to focus on the aspect of being "United In Acceptance" which simply means that we know and understand that we are one whole complete being, one aspect in this physical reality and one aspect within that of Source Energy, God, Jehova, Alah....whatever you want to call it.  In other words you have a left arm and right arm, while they work independent of each other, they still make up your whole body.
Now that we have that established, lets look at all these emotions that we have on a daily basis, or should we say on a minute by minute basis.  As you go through your day and you encounter situations, you receive feelback from your non-physical self through your emotions.  This is your internal communication system that we referred to earlier call the "Language of Self".  The most important aspect of understanding this "Language of Self" is the "YOU" factor.  Before you can fully understand your own "Language of Self" you must first understand, know and accept the real you.  You need to take a quick minute, and get to know the real you.  Who are you?  What desires do you have and want to experience?  How do you feel about yourself?  When you look in the mirror, do you see someone you love?  Again a lot of questions, but you really need to answer those questions.  The more you ask  yourself those questions the more you will get to know and understand who you really are as a being in this physical reality.  When you do this, you actually bring forth the real you, the essence of your non-physical being.  This is how you become one whole and complete being.  This is how you diminish a perspective of being one being with two separate aspects, as we are one being that has two aspects, but we are one being.  Remember the arm analogy.  Now that you are beginning that process, you will begin to feel differently.  This is due to the fact that you are now beginning to understand who you really are and in doing so you are allowing yourself to understand you own "Language of Self".  There is no magic trick to make this work, you just have to get to know who you really are and always cultivate that relationship.  The relationship you have with yourself is one of the most important relationship you can have within this journey, as when you have this knowledge of self and bring forth that very knowledge you are now living life from a desire perspective rather than that of contrast.  As you do this, you will notice that other individuals begin to respond differently towards you, some positive and some negative.  Just remember, they are all letting you know where they are at on their own personal journey.  Have that perspective and you will see things clearly and not take on ones energy that may be a lower vibration than you own.  Going through this process is actually helping you build your foundation from which the "Language of Self" will work for you. 
Now that you have laid the ground work and created a foundation from which to proceed, your emotions will begin the loving process of bringing forth the "Language of Self", but now you will have a fuller and better understanding of this communication process.  Each emotion you have throughout your day is telling you something about you, about your relationship with self and about the situations you are experiencing.  From our standpoint now, we begin to feel our emotions on a different level, we see each one as more than just good or bad.  Now we begin to feel that underlying message that is being communicated with us from our non-physical (we like to call it our "Higher Self").  We all of a sudden have new perspectives on situations through our new awareness of ourselves.  Each emotion, each feeling we have is telling us something about ourselves.  It is further defining our relationship with self, and we can now go well beyond just good or bad, but can now see and feel the nitty gritty of each aspect of each situation.  We are now learning how each situation we encounter, each person we encounter is either in alignment with our desires or if we are perhaps a bit out of balance and need some self tweeking.  The "Language of Self" is our guide to our heartfelt desires (desires that are a true reflection of who we really are) and is therefore one of the most important aspects of our journey.  Think of it this way, when someone asks you a question, you hear it with your ears, you develop the response within your brain and you bring forth the answer with your mouth.  Now looking at it simply it was your mouth that gave the answer so do we then dismiss the ears and brain?  Of course not, therefore why would you dismiss your "Higher Self's" ability to guide you through your journey?  When you have the proper perspective you wouldn't!
When you have the proper perspective of the "Language of Self" you have to proper tools from which to create, manifest and experience your desires.  Listen to yourself, realize it is your "Higher Self" that holds the road map to each and every heartfelt desire you have, and this includes ones you realize and those that you have not even thought of at this moment in time.  With this being true, why would you ignore the "Language of Self"?  It is when you stop ignoring the ever important "Language of Self" that you truly being to realize, appreciate and live well within the powerful you!  Take a moment to think about that statement, feel the power behind those words and you will be well on your way to mastering your very own "Language of Self"!  Have fun with it, feel good about it and you too will begin to experience all that you desire!
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Sunday, October 10, 2010


We all have had times in our life when we felt as though everything was just going wrong, no matter what we did or tried to do, things just went wrong.  You even began to feel what is the point to try new things as you only felt helplessness.  You felt everything from grief and despair to downright depression.  You found yourself asking anyone that would listen why does all this happen to me, why do I only experience bad things, why do I never seem to catch a break, why......why.......why????
It is at these times in one's life that you need to take a quick minute and take stock of who you really are as a person as a whole and complete being.  In doing this you need to realize that there are two aspects to yourself that make "you" up into the being you are within this physical reality that we all reside.  You need to realize that your two components make up the whole and complete you.  The first aspect is of your physical being, the one you see in the mirror.  This is actually the smallest aspect you!  Your larger aspect is that of your non-physical being, the aspect that you feel.  This is the largest aspect of you as this is the aspect that is fully anchored with that of Source Energy, or within that of God depending upon your own beliefs.  This is the aspect that is most alive as it truly is within pure positive energy.  The key to your own personal success is to "feel" the two aspects as one whole complete aspect.  When you do this, it is called being "United In Acceptance" with who you are as an individual being and bringing forth that whole and complete aspect into this physical reality.  In doing that one simple task, you are now living life from the standpoint of being the real you and in doing so have started a truly wonderous aspect of your journey, as you are now living life that is desire orientated rather than that of contrast.  In other words you are living a life that is full of aspects you want to experience rather than aspects that are not pleasing to you at all.  At this point it is important to point out that any contrast you do experience is merely a desire indicator as it is letting you know you are not focusing on your desires but rather the lack thereof.
Now that we have tackled the issue of being "United In Acceptance" with your own whole and complete being, lets get back to the barage of the "WHY" questions.  As now we can offer some easy answers to all those why's you have within your life.
Once you understand the "United In Acceptance" aspect of your being you really can see and feel why your life at times seems to fall apart.  When you see yourself as having two seperate aspects to yourself you are actually stiffiling that large aspect of yourself, your non-physical self, your higher self, your conscience....whatever you want to call it.  When you do this, you are actually creating gap within your being and that gap is what you are feeling.  You feel this gap as a perceived negative as you have moved away from your communication center.  It is this non-physical aspect of yourself that provides you with your "Language of Self".  When you are well within being "United In Acceptance" the "Language of Self" is loud and clear,  That little voice that guides you to or away from any activity is clearly sensed and feel wonderful as you listen to and take the action steps it guides you to take.  The oposite is just as effective, however when you ignore those very action steps and travel in the direction from which you know you should travel on your journey you feel it just as strongly, but now you are expereicing the preceived negative emotions: worry, doubt, fear, anger, fear, unhappiness, fear, jealousy and did we mention fear!  You feel the latter when you step away from being "United In Acceptance", when you step away from feeling yourself as one complete person.  It is easy to have all the why questions at this point, but the one why question you really need to address is, "why do I not see myself as a whole and complete person"?  As once you answer that question, all the other "why" questions will either have a clear answer or will no longer be a question as they will have found that resolution that you have been seeking.
One needs to stay focused on themselves, stay in touch with the real and true them.  In doing so you will begin to create a life filled with desire, a life filled wtih anticipation of the journey.  You will feel the real you, you will feel the love you truly have for yourself.  There is not better reason to stay focused on you and who you are than to feel your own self love and begin to live and share your life from that standpoint.
So the next time you find yourself asking yourself, "why is this happening to me" stop for that quick minute and check to see just how "United In Acceptance" you are with yourself.  Have a conversation with yourself and put yourself back in balance.  Feel the completeness of your self, feel the vibrant life that is within all of you, bring forth that you into your reality and then ask yourself, "why am I doing this to myself" and listen to the answer.  If you find a fear based answer, not worthy of good things, just not good enough or whatever that answer maybe, then you need to go within and focus on you, get to know you and realize that fear is not an aspect of yourself as you are a magnificent creator and any desire you have you can not only realize but can manifest and experience as that is why you came into this physical reality in the first place.  Be "United In Acceptance" within yourself and you will find an inner resolve and fortitude that will truly benefit you guide you to a life filled with joy, love and happiness.  You will soon have a new why within your life and it will be, "WHY NOT ME!"  You deserve desire manifestations and experiences as much as the next being sharing this physical reality with you!
Just ask yourself this one question now, "where is my focus?"
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As always, may you continue to experience all that you desire!
Mary Anne Cipressy and David Trippany
ITSC Coaching, LLC. 

Thursday, October 7, 2010

What's In A Feeling"

Have you ever stopped for just one moment and thought about your feelings and what they are all about?  Have you ever taken a moment to think about what they are telling you?  Do you have enough trust within yourself to fully rely on what you are feeling so much so that you just act on that feeling without trying to first figure it out?  Do you realize that your "feelings" are merely "The Language of Self", your higherself, your non physical aspect, your conscience, your guardian angel....what ever you choose to call it, communicating with you, helping you along your path, your journey.
Lets examine this for just a moment.  Your feelings are your Language of Self helping you make decisions, decisions that will ultimately assist you in creating your desires.  The desires that you are wanting to experience in your brilliant physical sense.  Your feelings are you guidance system to those very manifestations, to those very desires.  This is why we refer to them as "The Language of Self".  It is the higher aspect of your whole complete being that is bringing forth the awareness into this physical reality that is truly your steering mechanism to the creation, manifestation and full experience of your heartfelt desires.  This is why it is so important to fully realize and understand your own "Language of Self", your own feelings!  It is within your feelings, your own "Language of Self" that all your answers reside.  This is why it's so vitally important for you to take the time to get to know who you are as a whole and complete being and bring forth that individual into this physical reality.  As you do this, your awareness of yourself and who you truly are become very clear and your "Language of Self" begins to take on a whole new meaning.  When you live your life bringing forth the real you, living life from the standpoint of the real you, you no longer live in wonderment but now live your life understanding your "Language of Self" and find yourself "acting" on your feelings rather than "reacting". 

Think about that for just one moment, feel the difference between those two words...."acting" and "reacting".  Which feels better when you put them in the context of your feelings?!!  You will be surprised when you do this and you will know immediately which serves you best!  One incorporates your whole being (physical = what you see in the mirror and non-physical = the part you feel) which would be "acting", while the other, "reacting", merely encompasses half of your being (physical = what you see in the mirror) and dismisses your largest aspect, your non-physical being.  When you do this you really are closing down your largest aspect of self.  This is when your "feelings" really begin to kick it into high gear and make you feel even worse as you begin the process of seeing yourself as having two aspects to self - one human and one spiritual/soul/higherself.  But most importantly you begin the process of seeing these two aspects as being separate from each other.  Doing this creates the very void you feel within you when you "react" rather than "act".  Think about it for a minute, begin to feel that statement and you will begin to realize that seeing yourself as two rather than one is detrimental to your creative process.

When you begin to feel yourself as "ONE COMPLETE BEING" we call this "Being United In Acceptance" as you no longer see a line of separation between the two aspects but rather see yourself as just one aspect, one being.  We are betting that you never put this much thought into your feelings, and now that you are being offered this perspective on your feelings, you will start to pay attention to your own "Language of Self" and realize there is importance within each and every feeling as each and every feeling is communication.  The very communication that creates and brings forth your heartfelt desire.
So let's ask the question once again, "What's In A Feeling"?  We are most certain your answer has taken on a whole new meaning.........a whole new feeling!
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Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

Mary Anne Cipressy & David Trippany

Monday, October 4, 2010

ITSC Coaching on Blogtalkradio Oct Show Schedule

Below are the days times of our upcoming shows.
All shows are recorded so you can hear after they air life as well. 
Just click on the show title to go to that show event.

Weds Oct 6
3 PM
On this show Mary Anne and David will be dialoging on the difference and similarities between thinking something is true, believing something is true and knowing something is true and how through the Law of  Attraction  these become our creation set points for manifesting what we desire. 
Friday Oct 15
3 PM
 Mary Anne and David will be dialoging on how to apply the concepts of the 
Law of Attraction to your life so that you can deliberately create what you desire. 
It is one thing to understand the LOA it is another to apply that understanding to everyday life.
Weds Oct 20
3 PM
 David and Mary Anne will be dialoging about how you are the source 
of your own answers, the source of what you desire. 
Nothing exists outside of you and when you want 
to manifest something, anything how it all starts with you.
Friday Oct 29
3 PM
David and Mary Anne will be dialoging on allowing yourself to feel the energy
how to shift it, how to determine what it is you are feeling and
how not to align with the energy of those feelings you do not wish to experience. 
They also will be showing you the role the LOA plays in this.