Thursday, June 16, 2011
FEELINGS…THE LANGUAGE OF SELF
By now we all understand that the Law of Attraction is solely based on feelings, how we feel is how the Law of Attraction responds. Remember, like attracts like! Doesn’t so much matter what you think but rather how you feel. That is the true key to The Secret/Law of Attraction.
So let’s explore the Language of Self. How is it that you respond to any given situation? Do you respond at the level of instinct/gut feeling or do you respond at the level of your logical self – your head? The answer to those questions is vitally important when you are being a sound and solid creator of your journey. If you choose the later, your head, you most likely are dismissing the Language of Self for that of your logical self. In doing so, you are actually setting yourself up for creating contrast, that which you typically are not wanting to create. Your logical self will always assist you in ignoring your Language of Self for what most sincerely seems like a better approach to handling the situation you are dealing with at that moment. However, all the while you gut feeling, your instincts are directing you to respond in an entirely different manner. A manner which may feel right, but may not make sense at the moment. Society has conditioned each of us to respond logically. Society has systematically over time removed “self” from the equation and replaced “self” with a process that puts the many over the individual. In doing so, “self” has been diminished to the point that if you begin to live life from the standpoint of “self” you are and an individual that is totally self absorbed and down right mean. You are ignoring your fellow man. What is not realized in this process, this way of thinking is that when you approach life from the “self” standpoint, then you truly are working for the benefit of all. We always fail to realize that we can only create for our ourselves, we can only create our own journey. We can’t create for anyone else….not our mothers, not our fathers, not our children, no one but ourselves. When that single aspect is taken out of the equation, which is always the case when the logical mind enters into the process, we not only deny ourselves the journey we desire but further deny those we are wanting to assist on their own paths. We have completely dismissed that aspect and have gone in a direction that is not representative of who we truly are as beings here on this physical plane. You see the Language of Self offers us the road map to creating that which we truly desire, that which we truly want to manifest, that which we truly want to experience. When you fail to follow that map, you fail to allow the real you come into existence, destined to only experience contrast which will only make you focus on the true heartfelt desire that, you guessed it, the Language of Self was only trying to get you to realize and act upon in the first place. This is why we see contrast as a positive aspect rather than negative, as it is merely a desire indicator.
So we ask the question again, how have you been responding to the situations within your own life? Have you acted from intuition or have you acted from the guy? Not sure. Look at the results you gained from any situation? We there results that were pleasing to you or were they more displeasing to you? Answer that honestly and you will begin to see your journey on a much clearer note, a note that will only aide you getting to know the real you!
That is another point that needs to be made when talking about this topic. The Real You! Do you realize that the Language of Self is a solid aspect of the real you? It is the communicative aspect that connects fully the physical and non physical you! Think about that for a minute. The fiber that has complete connection between all aspects of you as a whole complete being is your Language of Self. Knowing this, why would you complete discount or worse yet, completely disregard that connective aspect of your whole complete self? Conditioning, perhaps. More often than not, it is solely out of fear! We feel this passage created by Marianne Williamson so eloquently says it best. “Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.” Follow that advice and you will truly begin to live within the realm of your own Language of Self.
Remember, your Language of Self is your salvation! Your Language of Self is the aspect of you that holds all your answers, the way to all your desires, the way to the life you truly want to manifest and experience. Let your own personal Language of Self serve as your guide for the situations that are presented to you while on this most fascinating journey and you too will begin to live that life you desires, that life just mere moments ago were dreaming about, the life that was meant for you to live while here.
So the next time you begin to shut down how you feel, STOP! Take note of what you are doing, take note of what you are doing to others! Forget about societal conditioning for one second, and bring yourself back into this wonderful journey and begin to live it from the standpoint of the real you! Bring the real you into this physical reality and put the logical self to rest and let the real self begin to make the decisions, decisions that will truly make the impact that you were wanting to make when you came here to this physical reality! Be and create from the real you, from your very own Language of Self.
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Mary Anne Cipressy and David W. Trippany
ITSC Life Coaches / ITSC Dialogers