The Law of Attraction: CONTROL VS CREATING Which Do You Do?

An interesting topic if ever we did hear one.  Let us first acknowledge that we are all creator being, whether or not we realize, accept or believe this we are just that.  We create all that we experience in our physical experience each and every second we are alive on this earth. 
You don’t have to believe it, you don’t have to understand it, you don’t even have to be aware of it in any form.  Being in the latter part of that thought puts you square in the center of where you really do not want to be, but we will get to that.

You see, when you have an understanding that we are a creator being, that we do create all that we experience within this life, we are square in the center of where you exactly want to be within this life.  But this too we will get too.  We just want you to begin to see first of all that there is a difference between believing that we are creator beings and that being a being where life just “happens to us”, where we have no creative power but rather are here living what is dealt to us.  Begin to “feel” the difference between the two statements, really, say them each within your mind’s eye: “I AM A CREATOR BEING” and “I LIVE THE LIFE I AM DEALT”.  Which “FEELS” better to you?  Secondly we want you to begin to understand that while there are different feels to the last stated statements, in order to truly and appropriately “FEEL” either of them you must first take the time to get to know, understand and have a belief in who you truly are as in individual being within this physical plane we all share.  You need to become “United In Acceptance” with who you “REALLY ARE” as that being.  By that we mean you need to fully understand that you are one part physical – that which you see in the mirror and you are  one part non-physical – that which you feel when you close your eyes and experience yourself without benefit of your sight.  Once you have an understanding that we have two parts your next step is to “feel each part as the two aspects that make up the whole you”.  Once you have done this and you see no separation but rather experience the whole and complete you and really feel it, you are now what we call “United In Acceptance”.  You are at this stage, well on your way to not just knowing who you truly are as a being but feeling the true you and living life from that stance.  You can say that you are “feeling” your way through life rather than “thinking” your way through life and yes there is a difference.  This is where we can now begin our full discussion of our topic – CONTROL VS CREATING.  You may want to go back and reread the beginning of this discussion to get a better and full understanding of what we are speaking about, as the clearer your thought is on this topic the better you will understand what we are saying with regards to this topic.

Let us go back to the beginning now.  Control VS Create.  When you have the above stated understating of self you can really begin to understand the difference between control and create.  You begin to not only see but feel that when you control you experience struggle, turmoil and find yourself well within contrast almost each step of the way.  While the opposite is true for creating.  You now begin to feel an effortlessness when you think about your life and your life’s experiences.  You begin to feel that all your dreams and desires are within your reach, no matter how far away they may actually be, you have a knowing that you will experience each of them, there is a belief there that they will all come to you.  This is due to the fact that you are fully in touch with who you are as a whole and complete being and you fully have the awareness of your true heartfelt desires, your dreams and your aspirations.  You know you will experience them and that is just the way it is!  We are certain the you are really beginning to see and understand the difference between control and create.  We are certain that you are feeling the difference between these two aspects of our daily life. 

So we now beg the question, which do you feel is the real you doing at your present moment within your life?  Which feels more real to you?  Which seems to be ringing more true to you?  Are you controlling life or are you creating life?  Give it some serious and deep thought as this is the only way you are going to be able to get centered on your path of life. 

We will go further into breaking each one down for you to assist you with a fuller more richer understanding of each, helping you bring forth the real you so you too can live your life full of desires rather than thru contrast to get you to feel desire.

When you are controlling life, you have an over whelming feeling that life is just not fair.  That you have been dealt a bad hand and just have to deal with you.  You pretty much walk through life with a chip on your shoulder and can be heard mumbling things like, life isn’t fair…..I can’t catch a break to save my own life…….why wish for something, it will never happen for me…….my life sucks…….good things only happen to others, not me…….I have no luck at all.  We could go on forever with such statements.  Each time you find yourself saying something like those statements, you are actually sending yourself a message, but are just not hearing it.  You are telling yourself to stop trying to control life, stop trying to micro manage life.  Let go of your controlling ways.  Take a quick minute to figure out why you are feeling so miserable.  You are experiencing the “Language of Self”.  Yes, you are talking to yourself!  Your higher self (the non physical aspect of self) is sending you messages, trying to get you to hear them so you can begin to live life from a new perspective, live life as it was meant to be lived.  Each time you try and “CONTROL” your life, you are in essence giving up control.  Each time you try and “CONTROL” your life you are stifling your own true self, you are shutting down the real you.  Why you ask?  There are many reasons…..fear, guilt, worry, no belief in oneself…..this list could go on and on.  It really boils down to not knowing who you are as we discussed earlier in this discussion.  We control when we have a lack of faith in who we are as beings, when we have little to no understanding or belief that we truly do have the ability to create that which we want to experience.  And sometimes, we do get to experience it, but because we have controlled every aspect of that which we want to experience, we did not see it as we saw it in our minds eye and were so separated from who we truly are that the feeling of the experience was completely lost and could never have been felt, therefore we feel that life once again has let us down!  We are certain that you are now beginning to bask in the full understanding of “CONTROLING LIFE” and really are beginning to feel yourself with a renewed perspective at this point!  Thing about this aspect of life, this aspect of your life before you read any further.  Feel yourself and where you are with relation to trying to control your life!

Now let’s examine the creating aspect life.  We are creator beings.  Once you have a basic understanding of that aspect of life, you have a basic understanding of how to live your life.  From the standpoint of the real you!  Bring forth the real you into this physical reality with a strong deliberate determination and you will have the ability to feel your way through life bringing into your level of experience all that you desire to experience.  You have the understanding that you do not need to control anything as you have a level of knowing belief that you will experience that which you desire as all you have to do is create it.  You begin this process by fully knowing and understanding that which your desires are that you want to experience, that you want to feel!  And feel is appropriate as that is what we are all after regardless of what it is we are trying to manifest……car, house, relationship, wealth…….makes no difference as we are all trying to achieve the same thing, a feeling that is associated with any desire you have, makes no difference what the desire is.  When you fully understand the creating process, you have an awareness of just that, you are going after the feeling not the “thing”.  When you understand that, you don’t need to get lost in trying to control the manifesting aspect as you already have that underlying feeling that it will come to pass, you will achieve that feeling from the manifestation.  You see, when you give up control you actually get more control over what really matters in life, the real you!  When you create, you visualize that which you desire and want to manifest.  You identify the “feeling” aspect of your desire, your future manifestation and that is what you focus on throughout the entire process, the feeling of that desire.  In doing so, you have just allowed yourself to align yourself with the Law of Attraction, you have just set yourself up to allow each and every step needed for you to take to become well within your awareness, therefore fully seeing and feeling each step and taking them without reservation and coming one step closer (and feeling it with certainty) to bringing into your physical reality that which you want to experience.  Further your level of contrast will be slight, on a level of preference, much easier to deal with than full blown contrast.  You don’t require the full blown contrast (contrast being a desire indicator) as you are fully in touch with that which you desire!  Amazing how the process works now isn’t it, when you have a full understanding of the process and begin to feel your way through it!  We are certain you have an awareness unlike ever before!

To learn more, be sure and join Mary Anne Cipressy and David Trippany this Friday on Blog Talk Radio as they dialog on this topic.  Join them at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC at 1PM eastern time.  Sit back and enjoy the dialog or feel free to join in either in the chat room or by phoning into the show!  You can also learn more by visiting the ITSC web site by going to: www.ITSCcoaching.com  While there, be sure and click on the “Resources Tab” to get your free tools today to help you better create your tomorrow.  If you have questions, comments or ever a show idea, please feel free to email us at: ITSC2008@aol.com  We look forward to all your emails, and have enjoyed all that we have received to date!  Keep them coming as we love hearing from all of you!!!

This is the start of a new series for us with regards to the Law of Attraction – “The Law of Attraction - Control VS Create”.   Each week we will dialog deeper into this topic helping everyone understand the entire process, therefore better assisting them with creating that which they desire! 

Until next time, may you all continue to experience all that you desire!

The Law of Attraction: HOW POWERFUL AM I?

How powerful do you feel?  That is the real question you need to be asking yourself to determine just how powerful you actually are within this physical plane.  Because whether you feel you are a powerful being or whether you are not a powerful being, either way you are absolutely right!  That is the most amazing aspect of this question.  The answer is totally up to you and how you feel about you at any given moment in time! 

Now when we speak about “how powerful you are”, we are absolutely referring to you being a creator being, a being with absolute creative powers to create the reality that you live within each moment of time you are on this earth.  That’s right, your reality is created by you, whether you want to believe that or not, it is all up to you.  Whether you understand the process or not, it is all about you!  You may be reading this saying to yourself, “I would never create this cruddy life I am living, I would create something much more grand”.  Well, understand it right here and now, you created exactly where you are at in life at this moment.  Only you, now one else.  You can blame whoever you like, but in the end, you created it!  And if you are thinking that very thought, take a quick minute to take stock of where your focus is and what you have been focusing on, and we are sure you will realize that you have been focused on more negative aspects rather than more positive aspects in your life.  You will begin to realize that your focus has been on exactly what you have been experiencing, exactly what your reality has been.  It may be a bitter pill to swallow realizing that you are responsible for your lot in life, but the sooner you accept responsibility for your lot in life, the sooner you can actually do something about changing that lot you are not very happy with at this point within your journey.  That is  the best part, you can tell yourself that you are an expert at creating that which you do not want, so why can you not turn that coin over and now begin to create that which you do want!  Interesting thought isn’t it!  We are betting you have reread that sentence a couple of times as it is a sentence that will actually begin to change your perspective about things, giving you a new creative perspective from which to create a new, create that which you do want to experience!

Now that we know and are beginning to realize that you are a powerful creator, and you are beginning to feel an understanding about it that you have not felt before, you can begin to be a “take charge creator”!  The first thing you need to do is understand that you have not made any mistakes, you have done nothing wrong!  You merely need to understand that everything you have experienced within your life, within your journey to this point has gotten you to this very point, this point where you now have a new understanding of the process and are willing to accept and take responsibility for your journey in a very deliberate manner!  What an awesome feeling is that to begin to bring into your awareness, your consciousness.  To take responsibility for your creative powers with a new and more powerful understanding.  You now have the where withal to bring forth a new focus, a new drive and determination to create that which you desire, truly heartfelt desire.  We need to remind you that the best way to achieve this is to take that quick minute to get to know the real you, get to a point of understanding the real you, as the more you do this, the more you truly know and feel your heartfelt desires and in doing so have given the Law of Attraction a new driven focus from which to assist you in creating that which you desire!  An amazing process when you begin to allow yourself to understand just how the process actually works.  It is quite easy, however with each passing minute we try to make it more difficult that it actually is as we have been habitually bombarded with thoughts like, “if it is worth having, it is worth working hard for”, “nothing comes easy in life” and our personal favorite “if it seems too easy, then it just isn’t real”!  Just understand the process and you will have developed a new perspective that will allow you to create desire rather than contrast!  How delightful is that process, how gratifying is that process, how self empowering is that process!!

So we ask you once again…….”How Powerful Are You?”  We are certain your answer is beginning to get in more of an aligned position with the real you than it was before you began to educate yourself on not just the process but on you as well.  After all, only you can create for you, no one else can, just you!  Begin to open your thoughts, begin to feel yourself within the thoughts you have, remember – it is not about what you think, but rather how you feel!  Get to know the real you, begin to understand the real you and the process will take on a whole new perspective.  The process will begin to reflect the real you.  Your life journey will begin to be filled with desire manifestations rather than contrast.  Try it, you will amaze yourself with your new found self empowerment!

To learn more, join Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany on Blog Talk Radio Friday at 4PM.  Log on at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC.  Sit back and enjoy the dialog or feel free to join the dialog either by phoning into the show are in the show’s chat room!

Visit their website at www.ITSCcoaching.com.  While there, click on the RESOURCES TAB to get your free tools today to create your better tomorrow.  Until next time, may you experience all that you desire!

The Law of Attraction: CREATING HAPPINESS

We all strive to create happiness, every second of every day, this is what we are most hardily trying to create, happiness.  We look high and low for what we feel is the ever elusive happiness.  We look to everything and everyone on the outside to accomplish this, as it must be somewhere outside of ourselves, right?  We read books that tells us where to look, what to change and who to listen too.  All so easy, at least it seems to be all that easy.  Yet, why are we still so unhappy?!!

While we look externally for the answer, the one main thing we are actually doing is not realizing where our answers truly come from, which is within ourselves.  It seems that whenever an answer is required to naturally come from within, we dismiss is quicker than we dismiss an annoying fly!  We think that is where we need to put our focus first, on ourselves and our own responsibility.  Once we give some focus there, we can further address how to truly create happiness.

We first must not just realize that we are magnificent creator beings, but we need to achieve this to the level of belief, the level of truly knowing that we are individuals, that when united in acceptance with our physical and non physical selves, having unconditional faith of this fact, then and only then can we begin to embrace our responsibility for creating our own journey, taking full responsibility for all that we experience, including happiness.  Once we embrace this fact, and truly feel the worth of it deep within our beings will we truly be able to successfully achieve the creations that we are trying to create!  At the level of feeling is where all creating begins, feel it……believe it……live it!  This is a hard concept for most people to embrace as we have been conditioned to believe that life happens to us and it really is life happens because of us!  Let us say that again, “many are taught to believe that LIFE HAPPENS TO US AND IT REALLY IS LIFE HAPPENS BECAUSE OF US”.  Can you feel the difference between the two statements?  We are sure you do and we are sure and most certain that when you say the latter part of the statement it begins to ring true deep within your being.  It most definitely is true, LIFE HAPPENS BECAUSE OF US!  We are the creators!  Knowing we are the creators then we most definitely are the ones to experience that which we create!  Beginning to make sense?  We thought so!

Now that we are beginning to realize that we are magnificent creator beings, creating the reality that we experience each and every day we can now address the next part of the question, creating happiness within our own life.  Understanding and feeling that we are magnificent creator beings, having the ability to create that which we want to experience and not just knowing this but feeling this will set the stage for the next part of our discussion.  Having that belief that we create our own happiness, that it is not found outside of our awareness, in other words happiness is already within us, we just need find the perspectives within life that draw us closer to the real us, which draws us closer to our true internal happiness.   Remember, our internal world will reflect the external world.  It never happens by our external world reflecting our internal world.  Think about that for a moment.  One statement actually feels better than the other.  Say them both out loud, “OUR INTERNAL WORLD WILL REFLECT OUR EXTERNAL WORLD”.    Say it out loud, feel it!  Now let’s examine the next statement.  “THE EXTERNAL WORLD WILL REFLECT OUR INTERNAL WORLD”.    You should be feeling the reality between these two statements.  Now that you are feeling the difference, you are understanding the difference and you will most certainly begin to create the difference!  You are now in a better place to begin to create happiness, to bring more happiness within you conscious reality, to create that which you are wanting to experience rather than contrast to get you to focus on that which you desire!

Lastly let’s address one issue that remains our hot topic.  To successfully create happiness, the most successful way to create happiness is to get to know the real and become united in acceptance with the real you.  Being united in acceptance merely means that you know, understand and feel your physical being (the aspect you see in the mirror) within this world AND you know, understand and feel your non-physical being (the aspect you feel when you close your eyes) within the world AND know, understand and feel both of these aspects as the full and complete you, knowing fully that these two aspects make up the whole and complete you!  Hence, you are united in acceptance!

You are now in a better state to create your own happiness!  Remember, only you can create for you, just you, no one else, simply you can create for you!  Knowing this, understanding this and feeling this statement deep within your being, you are now better equipped to create more happiness within your journey, your life, your being, your reality!  Remember, it is YOUR journey!  Take care of it, create that which you desire and you will always experience that which you desire!

To learn more, join Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany this Friday and 1PM eastern on Blog Talk Radio.  Go to www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC and either sit back and enjoy the show or feel free to join in through the chat room or by calling into the show!  Any way, we look forward to dialoging with you!  You can also learn more by visiting the ITSC website at www.ITSCcoaching.com  While there, click on the “RESOURCES TAB” and get your free tools today to help create your better tomorrow!

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

THE LAW OF ATTRACTION “MAKING SENSE OF IT ALL”

The Law of Attraction, the Law that dictates that Like Attracts Like.  Sounds simple, and it is but there is so much more to that simplistic statement and the Law that truly governs our life and how we create that which we experience within our lives.  Simple, yet complex and that is why we feel folks get so caught up in the details that they lose sight of the bigger picture, the creative factor as well as the self factor.  While there are many complexities to The Law of Attraction, it really is all about how you feel and what you do with how you feel! 

Imagine, how you feel and what you do with how you feel is really where your focus needs to be when trying to work with the Law of Attraction.  To start the process properly, you truly need to take a quick minute to get to know exactly who you are as a human being, an individual within this physical plane we call home.  Become “United In Acceptance” with who you are, meaning you must first recognize there are two aspects to your being, the physical you see and the non physical you feel.  Then you need to recognize that these two aspects intertwine together creating one whole and complete being, the real you!  Once you have achieved this aspect of life, you are then “United In Acceptance” with the real you and your relationship with self has started and you are well underway to not only understanding the Law Of Attraction, but successfully working with the Law of Attraction.  This aspect of understanding and making sense of the Law of Attraction is the most exciting aspect as you are developing the sense of well being, the sense of knowing that you came forth into this physical journey to truly work with the essence of the Law of Attraction.  The better you develop the relationship with self, the more successfully you will work with the Law of Attraction, as you will be tuned in, tapped in and turned on to not only who you are but exactly what your desires, your heartfelt desires truly are and will be open to all the steps the Law of Attraction will provide you with to successfully manifest and experience your desires!

Sounds exciting and it is exciting!  When you have successfully achieved the “Unite In Acceptance” aspect of your journey here within this physical plane, you are now in a position to truly realize that you are the creator of your own journey!  You create that which you experience.  When you have this within your foundation of your understanding of the Law of Attraction, you are setting yourself up to have an extraordinary life, a life that will encompass much desire and minimal contrast.  When you have established your strong foundation, you have no doubt that you are a creator and that you and only you can create the journey you traveling.  No one can do it for you!  Others can absolutely co-create with you, influence you and share their wisdom with you, but in the end only you can create that which you experience.  This is why it is so important to create a strong foundation from which you can grow and create your reality.  It is up to you.  You can’t sit back and let or allow someone else to create for you as only you know and understand your true heartfelt desires, therefore you should know and realize that only you can create your journey.  Know this aspect and you know your foundation and you are truly beginning to understand your creative powers, giving you a greater stance when it comes to your own “self empowerment” giving you a further creative genius that even better sets you in a grand place to work with the Law of Attraction!

You have now achieved a greater awareness of the Law of Attraction, of self and of your own creative abilities.  With this new found awareness you now need to begin to pay attention to how you feel with a vengeance, so to speak.  The way you feel is your “Language of Self”, your communication system between your physical being and non physical being.  Your “Language Of Self” is that internal voice, that gut feeling that urges you to do one thing over another, encourages you to not do something, that internal light that serves as your true guide when all else seems to be lost.  Most of us see the “Language of Self” in hind sight as we ask ourselves, “why did I just do that” or “why did I not do this” or even “I knew that was going to happen”.  All living examples of our communicative ability, our communication system within ourselves, our own “Language of Self” is our best tool when working with the Law of Attraction and creating, manifesting and experiencing our true heartfelt desires.  Understanding this aspect, and having a knowing and belief about your own “Language of Self” will serve you all the days you are within this physical plane creating that which you truly desire.  Remember this, you will never give yourself bad information, you will never steer yourself in the wrong direction, you will always create your desires when you fully listen to and understand your own “Language of Self”.

We are certain you are now beginning to make more sense of the Law of Attraction.  It truly is a simple process that we complicate more than we realize, but then if we did not complicate this process we would not be human!  Enjoy the journey as when you do you are truly appreciating and utilizing all of your creative abilities!

To learn more, be sure to join Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany as they dialog on this very topic Friday, 1PM eastern on Blog Talk Radio.  You can join them at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC  You can sit back and listen to the dialog or you can join in either in their chat room or by phoning into the show!  You can  also visit them at  www.ITSCcoaching.com   While there, click on the “RESOURCES TAB” to get your free tools today to create your better tomorrow.  You can also email them at ITSC2008@aol.com

We look forward to dialoging with you soon!  Until then, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

FEAR IS ALL AROUND…………..OR IS IT???!!!!!!

 

Now there is a thought provoking theme if we have ever heard one.  Fear!  Fear seems to be all around us on a daily basis.  It is thrown in our faces no matter where we look, listen or rest!  Fear!  What are we to do?  STOP!  STOP for a quick minute and take a new perspective.

First of all, define FEAR.  Fear actually stands for False Evidence Appearing Real.  Think about it for a moment.  When do you become most fearful?  When something is presented to you where you truly do not know the outcome or have no perceived control over the outcome.  What is the next thing that happens?  You begin to let “logic” take control.  When you do this, what do you do?  You begin to run ever scenario through your head that could possibly happen.  Admit it, you do this, we all have a tendency to do this as it is an aspect of being human within this physical plane.  While you are running this exercise in your head, pay attention to the scenarios you are utilizing!  They are 99.9% negative, having a negative impact, negative effect or contain a negative dismal event that will most certainly spiral us well down into the depths of despair, depression and doom!  With this understanding, this new realization of what we actually do, what can we deduce from all of this?  We can actually begin to understand that FEAR is man made, something we actually and absolutely create!!  Fear comes about when we put into motion events in our minds that do not match the events we want to have actually transpire.  In other words, we create an outcome that is so horrible, so unlike us, something that we would never create for ourselves, an event that is not in alignment with our true heartfelt desires.  We create the fear!  Yes we do, all the time and we all do it.  Some more than others, some less than others but we are all active participants within the “creating fear cycle”.

Now that we have identified what we do, let’s address for a moment why we do it!  The easiest answer to this question is our self worth, how we feel about ourselves and our own worthiness within this physical plane!  Face it, how many times have you had a desire and the first thought you had was in some fashion “I can never do, have or be whatever it is that we desire”.  We are sure you are reading this saying to yourself, “there is no way I do that to myself”, as the knot in your stomach grows tighter.  Go look in the mirror, do it, go look in the mirror.  When you do, what are the first thoughts that come into your physical consciousness?  We are certain they are not very positive thoughts, more likely they are negatively critiquing some aspects of your body, looks or being.  Be honest, we all do it from time to time.  We all have issues on some level of self worth, fulfilling our desires and actually being worthy of that which we desire.  Imagine this, again we are the cause of our own fears!

The root cause of this….we fail to develop a true and sound relationship with our whole and complete being!  We fail to be fully “United In Acceptance” with our true selves.  In other words, we fail to see ourselves as one whole and complete being, understanding we have a physical aspect that we see and a non physical aspect that we feel and these two aspects together form our whole and complete being.  We are not separated!  We can never separate that which is whole.  When we being to understand this, when we begin to feel this and when we begin to live life from this standpoint, we begin to get this “FEAR ISSUE” under control.  Take that quick minute to develop that relationship with yourself.  Talk to yourself each day, even if it is just for a few moments, get to know who you are as a whole and complete being!  Do it for yourself, you will be glad you did!

Be sure and join Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany Friday as they dialog on this very topic!  Join them on Blog Talk Radio at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC, Fridays at 1 PM eastern time.  Sit back and listen or feel free to join in the dialog, you will be glad you did!  To learn more, visit them at www.ITSCcoaching.com.  While there, click on the “Resources Tab” to get your free tools today to create your better tomorrow.

Until next time, may you experience all that you desire!

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches with ITSC, LLC.

 

Understanding Your Creative Power

Do you realize that you are a creator being?  Do you realize that everything you have experienced to this point in your life you have created?  Do you realize that from this point forward within your life everything you experience in your life you will create?  Some great and profound questions, as they give all of us a chance to truly reflect not just upon our life, our journey but on ourselves as well.  When was the last time you took that quick minute to do this type of reflection?  Probably been some time if you are truly honest with yourself.

First let us talk of being creator beings.  We all create every second of every day we are within this physical plane.  The creating never stops.  Every experience from big to small, we create it.  We create whatever it is that we want to create, even when it is a contrasting event.  Remember, contrast is merely a desire indicator, therefore, when we create contrast we are deeply creating as we are doing our best to get ourselves to refocus on that which we truly want, on that which we truly want to experience!  When we realize and fully understand that we are creators, that we are responsible for that which we experience we then begin to fully feel and understand what our role is within this journey we are on and are experiencing with each and every step we take.  Once you realize this, you then have a better stance from which to begin working with the Law of Attraction.  We have placed ourselves in a position to begin to feel ourselves, feel our true heartfelt desires and truly have given ourselves the opportunity to fully and successfully work with the Law of Attraction in bringing into our existence our true heartfelt desires.  The best part of this realization is the relationship that we are solidifying with ourselves.  We have a full understanding of what we call being United In Acceptance with ourselves, realizing that the physical and non physical aspects create the whole and complete us.  There is no separation, there is only a complete being with different aspects that complete the whole being.  So realizing we are creator beings is so beneficial in so many ways!

Let’s now address the aspect that may be the hardest for us to accept.  That everything we have experienced to this point in our life, we are responsible for as we actually created each and every situation, whether big or small, whether pleasant or not so pleasant, we created them!  Now we are sure you are sitting there reading this saying to yourself, “that is the biggest load of garbage as I would not have put myself through heartache, failed attempts at success or health issues that were anything but fun!”  Well we are here to tell you that yes you are responsible for each of the mention events and for the multitude of events that were not mentioned here.  Just look at your life to this point and realize you created all of it!  You were the creator and producer and director of all of it!  Good and bad alike.  Happy and sad alike.  Pleasant and unpleasant alike!  You created it all.  Now still disbelieving this, stop for a quick minute and truly ask yourself “how you felt when things were not going so good for you” and be honest with yourself.  You probably were not feeling all that good, as a matter of fact you were probably feeling yourself feel worse and worse as what you were creating was going from bad to worse.  You answer as to why is in the last sentence!  You were feeling from the range of bad to worse.  Perhaps if at any point you would have had a simple perspective change, you may have been able to refocus and begin creating that desire you were going for rather than all the reasons why you couldn’t create that very desire!  You see, when you have a desire that you want to create, you can absolutely create it, yes you can!  But the problem begins when you begin to tell yourself all the reasons why it can’t be created, why it is too big for you, why it could never come into your physical realization, your physical experience.  See where your focus was?  Sure it was on the desire at the onset, but soon after you yourself sabotaged your creation.  Look and feel what you were feeling about your desire!  Remember, according to the Law of Attraction, “IT IS NOT WHAT YOU THINK, BUT RATHER HOW YOU FEEL”.  We are sure at this point you are beginning to get some understanding of the process, the feeling process.  And we are sure you are beginning to understand your own power, your own powerful ability to be a conscious and deliberate creative being.  After all, it is your journey and your experiences, so why would you not be the most powerful creator of that journey!  It is you, all you and only you!  When a ship sets sail, when an aircraft takes off, is there not a Captain at the helm and in the cockpit steering the journey?  Sure there is, just as there is with your own personal journey.  You are the Captain!  Feel that, be that and live that!

Now let us take a look at your future!  With this new found understanding that you are a powerful creator being, with this new feeling within you, how are you going to look at and approach your future desires?  We hope you take the stance that you are a powerful creator being, you are responsible for every creation and you are the master of your desires and those very desires coming into your physical existence and reality.  Once you have that confidence, understanding and feel it deeply within the core of your whole and complete being, you are now a masterful creator that can and will create the desires, the true heartfelt desires you have laying in wait for you to realize them, create them and manifest them into your physical reality!  Powerful perspective now isn’t it!  We think so!  So use this information to your benefit and create that which you want and understand when you are creating contrast, you are merely trying to refocus yourself on that which you truly want.  So don’t get frustrated, just understand that you are putting into place your “fail safe” mechanism to assist you in experiencing that which you truly want to experience!  Amazing isn’t it?!!!!

Now that we have broached the surface of these questions, are you going to take that quick minute and look at yourself?  Take that quick minute to take full responsibility of your journey?  Are you going to remember and feel that it is not what you think but rather how you feel?  We are sure you will, as you are now understanding the full creative process and that “YOU” are the most important aspect of your creative journey!  Remember, it is all about you, only you!  And only you can create for you, only you, no one else!  Have fun with this and feel good about it!  Feel good about everything!

To learn more about this topic, join Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany on Blog Talk Radio at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC Fridays at 1 PM (eastern time) and either listen to the dialog or feel free to join in the dialog.  You may also learn more by visit the ITSC website at www.ITSCcoaching.com   Visit the site today, while there be sure to click on the “RESOURCES TAB” to get your free tools today to create your better tomorrow.

Until next time, may you experience all that you desire!

Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches with ITSC, LLC

WHAT IS IT THAT YOU ARE WANTING?

 

Do you know the answer to this question?  Or do you have to think about it for a moment or even a couple of moments?  More than likely you are in the latter group as most individuals truly do not know what they are wanting in life.  Sure, you may be able to rattle off one or two “feel good” items such as a new car or house.  Those items, we believe, are societal conditioning desires – keeping up with the Jones’ thing.  But what is it that you are truly wanting, that you truly have a heartfelt desire to experience?  Don’t feel bad if you can’t rattle off a long list of heartfelt desires, as you are in the largest groups of individuals walking around today!  We really don’t take enough time for ourselves, enough time to truly bring into our own awareness that which we truly desire for ourselves.  Many reasons for this, the most common being not wanting to be selfish, not wanting to ignore others and just getting wrapped up in life being too busy fending off contrast that we are most certain we never created or intended to create.  After all, why would we want to create contrast when we know we are brilliant creator beings, capable of creating every heartfelt desire we can dream up?!!  Why would we put ourselves through this process?  Why would we put aside our magnificent ability to create desire for our equally powerful ability to create contrast, to merely get us re-focused on that which we desire?  Something to ponder perhaps, something for us to really sit and realize where our perspective truly is on this issue!

The answer is simple, so simple that it gives us such grief.  It seems the simpler something is, the more difficulty we have in disseminating what it truly is trying to tell us.  Again, this is due to societal conditioning as we have been conditioned to believe that anything in life that is worth having, worth doing, worth being must come hard.  Why we would do this to ourselves is beyond us, but society just loves to make things more difficult, much harder to achieve than is actually possible.  The answer is focus!  Yes focus!  Surprised?  You shouldn’t be as what we usually focus on is usually not what we are wanting, but rather what we are not wanting!  Stop for a quick minute and think about this.  You have a heartfelt desire come into your physical awareness.  You think about it, you feel it and then what happens?  You begin to tell yourself why that desire will never come to pass: you don’t have enough money…..you don’t have enough time…….you tell yourself  that you could never have that….you tell yourself to get real, after all it is you and not someone else….you tell yourself to keep dreaming and the list can go on and on and on!  We sabotage ourselves, we feel our heartfelt desires and then we place our focus on why we can not manifest that which we desire.  Our focus in on the non manifestation of the desire, therefore the Law of Attraction works brilliantly!  You may be thinking about creating the desire, however you feel that you can never manifest such a desire!  Here in lies the true difference between “thinking and feeling”!  This is why we always stress it is not about what you think but rather how you feel!  The Law of Attraction responds to how we feel and not what we think.  While it is true that “thoughts become feelings”, when we truly know who we are as true and complete whole beings, being united in acceptance with the physical aspect and non physical aspect, how we feel will dictate our thoughts , but when we are not united in acceptance in this fashion, we tend to allow our thoughts steer our feelings.  In other words we rationalize our feelings to match our thoughts.  If we have the feeling that we can achieve a particular manifestation, we will then allow thoughts to rationalize why we can not achieve that manifestation usually using the most convenient rationalizations at hand.  We talk ourselves out of the desire, we ignore the feeling.  We try to be less than what we have become, and there in lies the reason we now create contrast, contrast to get us to refocus on that which we truly desire as we are most capable of manifesting each and every desire we think and feel about.  No exceptions!  A perfect system in which we are pleasantly imperfect, but it truly is magnificent system we created, which is why we profess that contrast truly is a positive experience!

So what have we learned?  We do get what we want all the time!  The next time you manifest something that you did not want, stop and remember what you had  been feeling about the desire.  What thoughts did you have about the desire?  Be honest with yourself!  You will begin to realize that your focus was exactly on what you created, what you felt is exactly what you created, again no exceptions!

To learn more about this topic, be sure to join Mary Anne Cipressy and Dave Trippany on Blog Talk Radio at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC .  The dialog begins at 1PM (eastern time).  All shows are archived so you can listen either live or from the archives!  You can also learn more by visiting www.ITSCcoaching.com.  While there be sure to click on the “Resources Tab” to get your free tools today to create your better tomorrow!  We look forward to dialoging with you!

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

 

Mary Anne Cipressy and David W. Trippany

ITSC Life Coaches with ITSC, LLC.

 

Creating Anew

Sometimes we focus so much on what we are manifesting that we forget that everything is created energetically long before it ever manifests. Something then manifests and we look at it and then say…”but this is not what I want” and wonder what we did to manifest such a thing. We look at why it manifested, try to find that 1 thought or belief that manifested this thing we say we did not want. We try to erase it, undo it, reverse it and overall resist that it manifested. Well that is all wasted energy because once something manifests it is now part of you past. It has happened, it has already occurred and the only choice you now have is what you are going to do with it.  

Think about those times when something manifested that you say you did not want and look at how you handle that. What questions are you asking yourself? What rationalizations are you using?  The biggest part of this whole process is thinking that what manifested in the first place is something that you did not want. Oh sure you may not think it is what you wanted but it is. The problem is in the perspective that this experience is a negative one. It may feel negative because the energy used to create it was of a lower vibration but that it is your judgment of the experience that makes it a negative not the experience itself. 

We fail to ask the most important question…”What is this experience telling me?” “What did I create this experience for?” We would rather look backward to try to figure out why this thing manifested as opposed to looking forward. When you look forward we begin to understand who we really are and what wonderful and master creators we are. The manifesting part takes care of itself when we realize we are creators not manifesters.    We focus so much on manifesting what we want and manifesting faster that we lose sight of the fact that we are creators. Change what you are creating and you will change what is manifesting. 

You can begin to create something new right here in this very moment without ever having to look backwards. You need to keep your focus present centered. Empower yourself as the creator you are. What has already manifested only tells you what you created in the past and has no bearing on what you can create when moving forward. What you are creating today are your manifestations of the tomorrows to come.  The past is the past and the future is yours to create.

RATIONAL THOUGHTS AND EXCUSES

Spend some time pondering that title and you will begin to understand how and why so many people begin to derail themselves when it comes the use of the Law of Attraction.  Yes, rationalizing and making excuses are the number one reasons people do not see the success they are looking for when it comes to the desired manifestations from the Law of Attraction.

How can that be, you ask?  Well let's examine this for a minute.  When you are in the state of rationalizing your thoughts, you are more times than not in the process of trying to make something fit in a situation that will not fit, no matter how hard you try.  Then when things fall apart, and they always do or they fall short, what is the first thing you say, "this Law of Attraction thing doesn't work, it is bunch of garbage".  When all along it was you the derailed the process by trying to make things fit that were never meant to fit!  Rationalizing your thoughts is the start of making excuses, the start of dumping your responsibility, your personal responsibility in creating your own journey.  When you begin to make excuses you actually are beginning the process of creating and experiencing contrast.  Why is that, as you are sabotaging yourself, therefore, the Law of Attraction now sets into motion "contrast" , which as we have come to know is merely a desire indicator.  So the Law of Attraction really does work as it is now working to show you the path back to your desires, the path you said you wanted to be on, the path that is filled with your desires.  When you begin to experience that which you do not want, remember you are just experiencing "contrast" which means the Law of Attraction is working with you to get you to focus back on your desires.  When this process happens, what is the first thing you begin to think and feel?  "I don't want this stuff?  I don't want to be feeling this way?  Why is this happening to me?"  Once you get off the "oh pity me merry-go-round" , you then begin to explore that which you really do want to experience in life, you begin to explore how you want to feel.  Think about this carefully for a minute.  You experience that which you do not want to experience and the very next thing to enter into your reality is that which you do want to experience, but now you begin to feel a more complete and concise feel to that desire.  You begin to have more awareness of that which you desire.  You are now more open to the Law of Attraction and now have more ability to see the steps that will bring forth the manifestation of that very heartfelt desire.  You now are beginning to understand the process, you now are beginning to feel how the process works, how manifestations occur when we ourselves do not have a clear feeling of those very desires.  This is how the process truly works, assists us through the process, ensuring we have every opportunity to experience that which we desire.

Having an understanding of how the process works is half the battle.  We as human beings will always from time to time try and rationalize out thoughts and create excuses.  That is just part of the process, that is the life we live.  While we did not fully come into this physical existence to work the process in this manner, we did place fail safes along the way to ensure we have every opportunity afforded us so we may experience all that we do desire.  Very profound when you keep it in the proper perspective, having the understanding and awareness to maneuver through a process which on face value may appear to be self sabotage when in reality is an avenue that allows the fullest experience and expression of the very desires we have and want to experience within physical form. 

Now that we have covered the basics, let us set forth an example to further provide awareness of this issue.

You heard about a job opening in the company where your friend works.  Now this is a company that you have wanted to work at for a very long time.  They pay their employees very well, they have a very generous benefits package and the Company Executives continually demonstrate their appreciation and gratitude for their work force, as they truly realize and understand just how important each individual is to the entire organization.  You are nearly beside yourself that there is an opening.  You boldly submit your resume.  They ask you to fill out a pre-employment application/questionnaire.  You do this with excitement and anticipation and return it to the Human Resources Department.  The individual takes it with a smile on his face and indicates that once the application process has closed they will be setting up interviews for those that are qualified.  You smile and say thank you and resume your life.  You leave the building with a certain bounce in your step, feeling as though you have the job.  A day goes by, then two and then three go by.  Your friend continues to assure you that the application process has not closed, but you don't hear that.  You now begin to rationalize your thoughts, saying things to yourself such as, "well my qualifications probably are not what they are looking for at this time", "they probably had hundreds of applicants, 98% of which were better than me", "why would they want me, what could I possibly offer a great company like that", "why am I even looking for a job, I already have one and even though I hate it, it is comfortable so why do I want to put myself through getting another job", "what was I thinking, the pay for that job is nearly three times what I currently make, who am I kidding", "how could I ever have thought that I could land a job like that, it is way out of my league", "get real, that is a dream job and I must have been in dream land to think they would want me".  This list could go on and on, think about yourself in that situation for a moment and come up with your own rationalized thoughts in that situation.  Days four, five, six and seven go by.  All the while your friend has been telling you that the application process has not closed yet but on day eight the process will close per company guidelines.  But all you heard was that there was no way in hell you are getting an interview for that job.  You have taken yourself from happiness, joyfulness and that knowing feeling of getting that job to a state of not even caring about the job any longer, as now you are trying to convince yourself that the job you have is all you are worthy of at this point in time.  On day ten you have all but forgotten about that resume you put in at dreamland, telling yourself it was their loss, you are way better than that company and why would you put yourself with a company that doesn't realize and recognize what a great employee you would be for them.  Thinking of all the reasons you need to be where you are, your cell phone rings and you think who is calling me, everyone I know, knows I am at work.  You look at the number, don't recognize it and figure what the hell, I'll answer it.  You do and you hear an unfamiliar voice.  Then it dawns on you that it's a call from Human Resources of the great company, setting up an interview for the position they have open!  Now look at all the rationalization you went through because the time did not fit your liking, the time was not so immediate, that you did not get what you wanted when you wanted it!  Think about this scenario for a minute, and now think about a similar scenario within your life where you made similar choices with rational thought and excuses.  Making even more sense now isn't it!  Now you have even more awareness of the Law of Attraction process, but now an awareness that will help guide you through what was once a very difficult process but is now an enlightened path!

To learn more on this topic, be sure to join Mary Anne and Dave on Blog Talk Radio, Friday at 1P.M. as they dialog on this very topic!  Tune in at www.blogtalkradio.com/ITSC  Visit them at www.ITSCcoaching.com to learn more about them and what they have to offer.  Be sure to check out their "Resources Tab" on their web site to get your free tools today to create your better tomorrow!

Until next time, may you continue to experience all that you desire!

Mary Anne Cipressy and David Trippany

Life Coaches with ITSC Coaching, LLC